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Stress management is creating a healthy routine and strategies that provide a healthy way to relate and unwind. Business stress is not uncommon to us and should be taken seriously. Here are some techniques to help you manage stress. 1. Embrace Adaptability In this digital world, adaptability is key to survival. Stress often comes from resisting change and the fear of the unknown. If you are running a business, you should be open to new technologies, market shifts and ideas. For example, consider a professional website builder for online marketing, monitoring your competitors on social media, showing your audience your existence, managing your bookkeeping efficiently, and managing your business from anywhere. Embracing adaptability allows you to stay ahead and aware and easily navigate unpredictability. 2. Set hours that work for you Time management is a precious resource. Poor time management can lead to stress. Set time that works for you and works for you clients as well. If you have proper time management, you will be able to coordinate with others well, hence reducing stress. 3. Prioritize and organize. Being overwhelmed is a major trigger for stress. A great way to reduce being overwhelmed and stressed is to organize and set your priorities right. Here is how you can do that • Clarify your goals • Prioritize against goals - evaluate your important goals and start with them. • Set deadlines • Use your calendar • Focus on 2-3 things maximum • Make a to-do list 4. Focus on daily tasks rather than the overall Accomplishing daily tasks is more important than completing overall tasks. Focusing on and completing daily tasks is a good way to stay grounded and less stressed. 5. Tidy your environment. If you feel overwhelmed and stressed, the most effective way is to create a conducive and clean environment as your working space. Take charge of your environment and your feeling for control will immensely increase. 6. Form positive relationship Running a business can at times be lonely. Building a positive reliable support system is crucial for mitigating stress effectively. Having positive friends to share ideas, talk to, seek advice and encourage vulnerability can give you emotional balance. 7. Learn Healthy coping mechanisms. In the business world, healthy coping mechanism will be beneficial to you, your clients and the business at large. Avoid getting upset over small things and issues. Have a positive attitude and a better outlook for small issues. 8. Delegate and empower your team Avoid handling all task single-handedly as it can result to exhaustion and stress. Delegate duties and task to your team by giving them power over specific tasks. This will increase dedication among your staff and can increas the performance of your business. 9. Get enough sleep and eat healthy. Eat food that can fuel your brain and support your focus and concentration. Get enough sleep, lack of enough sleep increases irritability and can lead to stress. Getting enough sleep can increase the overall performance of your business. To TOP UP Take action to fix things that are triggering your stress and making you unhappy by intentionally improving your feeling of control. Managing stress is personal work and, most importantly, is about your mindset. Your attitude can greatly impact your ability to cope with your business. Have a positive mindset, focus on what you can control, take care of yourself don’t fear mistakes instead learn from them and in return you will reduce stressed caused by businesses.

The global pandemic, political turmoil, and now the ongoing cost-of-living crisis has left many of us feeling increasingly stressed, anxious and upset. With that in mind, Dee Marques shares 11 practical tips to feel stress-free quickly – all backed by science. Stress is one of the biggest health challenges we face today. While a small amount of positive stress can be good for us, ongoing chronic stress can lead to or exacerbate many serious health problems. And with Coronavirus still testing the health and well-being of the globe, it's become increasingly difficult to remain free from stress, with many of us noticing our anxiety levels are on the rise. Indeed, in the US, more than 55 per cent of people claim to feel stressed during the day, a figure that’s well above the global average (35 per cent). Meanwhile, in the UK, nearly 75 per cent of adults say they have felt overwhelmed by stress at some point over the past year. In fact, stress isn't “just stress”, since it affects both our mental and physical health. Studies show a close link between stress and mental health conditions like depression and anxiety. Other side effects of unmanaged stress include anger, low self-esteem, loneliness and poor memory. As for its potential impact on the body, stress can cause anything from headaches to digestive disorders, insomnia, skin and hair problems, and increased chances of developing heart conditions. 11 ways to feel stress-free fast Since stress is so widespread, you may wonder if it really is possible to become free from stress. While that may seem hard to achieve, there are definitely things you can do to reduce your stress and anxiety levels that do not require a great deal of time or money. Here are 11 ideas you can try to reduce stress and start to feel calm quickly. 1. The power of houseplants One of the simpler (and more enjoyable) steps you can take is creating a stress-free environment. We can’t always do that at large scale, but there are little things you can do in you home and personal working space. Indoor plants, as humble as they may seem, have become increasingly popular recently and for good reason – they can boost enormously your ability to cope with stress. In fact, a Japanese study compared the feelings produced by transplanting a plant vs working on a computer. The result showed that while the group who worked on a computer had higher blood pressure, those who interacted with plants felt calm and soothed. Indeed, adding indoor plants to your home environment can make a world of a difference and help you to become stress-free. Plants may reduce blood pressure and stress levels shutterstock/Amilao 2. Breathing techniques Our bodies react to stress by going into overdrive. Studies confirm a link between slow controlled breathing and the nervous system: taking deep breaths reminds the brain that it’s time to calm down, and then the brain sends the same message to the body to stabilize the heart rate and release tension in the muscles. If you’re not familiar with the benefits of controlled breathing, it’s time to explore some techniques that can help you control anxiety and help you feel stress-free. Check out the final tip in our article on mindful behavior for a great breathing technique that will relax you within seconds and feel your melt away. 3. Physical activity Exercise causes a spike in endorphins, one of the happiness hormones. To achieve a stress-free state, the key is to engage in physical activity regularly. The type and frequency of exercise depends on your preference and overall health status, but as a guideline, a Finnish medical study found that moderate aerobic exercise was best for higher endorphin levels. “Adding indoor plants to your home environment can make a world of a difference and help you to become stress-free.” Some types of moderate exercise that can bring relief include cycling, brisk walking, dancing and water aerobics. The impact of COVID-19 means we can't do all of these right now, but still try and do some form of exercise in your home or garden to keep your spirits up and mental health in check. RELATED: Mindful running – 6 tips to get you started 4. Body relaxation To become stress-free fast, add a mix of mood-boosting exercise with calming relaxation techniques. Relaxation methods like tai chi, meditation, yoga, or mindfulness have been practised for centuries. Consciously relaxing your body, or even parts of it, can slow down your heart rate, lower stress hormone levels, and boost confidence in your ability to cope with problems. Some techniques you want to try include progressive muscle relaxation, massage therapy, qi gong, and ashtanga yoga. 5. Experiment with essential oils Aromatherapy has been around for thousands of years. Even in Ancient Egypt people were aware of the power of aromatic herbs and their role in well-being. The organs responsible for our sense of smell are directly connected to the parts of the brain linked to emotions, so exposure to certain scents can have a positive effect on mood and help reduce anxiety. Lavender essential oil has been widely studied for its ability to induce calm, and it seems effective in the short-term treatment of anxiety and restlessness. Other essential oils to help you become free from stress include jasmine, bergamot, holy basil, rose, frankincense, vetiver and lemon balm. Aromatherapy: sniff to reduce stress shutterstock/Madeleine Steinbach 6. Create a stress-free playlist We’re only beginning to understand the power of music and how it brings stress relief. If, as 17th century playwright William Congreve said, “music has charms to soothe a savage beast”, surely it can help us reach a stress-free state too? One study compared stress levels in surgical patients who listened to music before an operation and those who didn’t, and found that those who listened to music had lower blood pressure and were said to feel less anxious. Some sounds and rhythms can be more effective than others. 7. Do nothing Feeling overwhelmed by tasks or responsibilities is one of the most common causes of stress. Sometimes, the best response is to put everything on hold and do nothing but take care of yourself: something many of us had to do during the COVID-19 pandemic. However, if doing nothing is still not an option, consider doing less or doing things at a slower pace, or doing them mindfully. Mindfulness gives you a chance to slow down, focus, and become more aware of your reactions. It has also been connected to lower activity in the amygdala, the part of the brain that triggers fear and stress responses. 8. Visualization techniques Visualization techniques can have a calming effect when stress becomes too much to handle. Immerse yourself in a scene that makes you happy and relaxed, and recreate every sensory aspect of the scene, from the smells to the sights or the sounds. By focusing on the sensory experience as a whole, you direct your attention away from sources of stress. Once that happens, your brain will also signal your body to relax. “Exercise causes a spike in endorphins, one of the happiness hormones. To achieve a stress-free state, the key is to engage in physical activity regularly.” Researchers have found that visualization (also called guided imagery) can boost mood and improve depressive symptoms in multiple sclerosis patients, so it surely can have a beneficial effect on stress too. RELATED: Visualization meditation – how to practise it 9. Share your feelings A burden shared is a burden halved, so don’t hesitate to talk someone close to you if worry begins to take over. Sharing your worries can bring a sense of relief, and scientific evidence supports this. A 2013 study found that disclosing feelings of worry and anxiety to someone sympathetic reduced levels of cortisol, the stress hormone. Sometimes you may even prefer to talk to a stranger. Talking therapy is effective in stress relief, whether it’s in person or over the phone. Talking is a therapy to become stress-free shutterstock/Monkey Business Images 10. B vitamins for stress support Did you know that certain vitamin deficiencies can lead to increased feelings of stress? A stress-free diet should be especially rich in B-complex vitamins. Some researchers suggest that these vitamins can lower homocysteine, an amino acid that spikes in stressful situations. So, it’s a good idea to revamp your meal plan to ensure it includes good amounts of vitamin B-rich foods, such as whole grains, legumes, dark leafy vegetables, seeds and nuts. Making this a habit can help lift your mood and reduce the mental fatigue brought about by stress. RELATED: The gut-brain axis 11. Honour your true self Sometimes, stress is a result of internal conflict. There are situations where we must choose between doing what we know in our hearts to be right, and pleasing others or dishonoring our core values. We all have certain values that guide our lives, so take some time to remind yourself of which are the most important to you. One of the steps towards being stress-free is resolving any tension or discrepancies between who you are and who you want to be. This is your opportunity to do just that and feel better. The takeaway: stress-free living During these tough times, try not to let stress and rising anxiety levels get in the way of your happiness. While we all experience stressful situations, there’s no reason to be overwhelmed by them, since we have multiple tools to strengthen our inner-self and become stress-free quickly. So, the next time you feel your anxiety levels rising, give some of our suggestions a try. ● Main image: shutterstock/baranq happiness.com | The fine art of being: learn, practise, share Are you a happiness.com member yet? Sign up for free to: ■ enjoy our happiness magazine ■ share and support in our happiness forum ■ learn with free online Academy classes Stress management | Letting go | Motivation Written by Dee Marques A social sciences graduate with a keen interest in languages, communication, and personal development strategies. Dee loves exercising, being out in nature, and discovering warm and sunny places where she can escape the winter.

With anxiety and depression levels rising in kids, mindfulness and meditation are increasingly being employed by parents. Here are 7 of the best mindfulness books for kids on the market that can instill these two essential life skills, keeping children calm and centered. By Ann Vrlak. Would you like to introduce mindfulness to your child, but aren’t sure where to start? It has been wonderful to see the explosion of interest in mindfulness for kids – in schools and in homes all around the world. There is a growing body of research that shows how simple mindfulness practices – tailored for children – can help kids learn invaluable skills they can use their whole lives, like how to: Self-regulate emotions Improve self-esteem and confidence Relax when you’re stressed or worried Concentrate better Treat yourself with kindness and compassion Increase empathy With this impressive list, it’s no surprise that schools are incorporating some form of mindfulness exercises in elementary and high school classes. Furthermore, many parents want to know how to teach mindfulness themselves, to help their children navigate everyday stresses and conflicts, and to learn tools to relax or take a pause if they feel upset. There are so many books about mindfulness for kids to choose from. I’ve done the work for you by choosing my seven absolute favorites. They’re all also five-star rated by the parents and kids I’ve recommended them to. Storybooks Storybooks are one great style of mindfulness book that explain concepts to children. Here are three of the best that are currently on the market: 1. Moody Cow Meditates | Kerry Lee MacLean Peter the calf has a “stupid, rotten day when everything went wrong.” He woke up with a bad dream, his sister drew on his skateboard, and the day just goes downhill from there. He is so upset and angry his sister names him “Moody Cow” which just makes things worse! Moody Cow Meditates is one of the best mindfulness books for kids because it describes the kind of day we all can have when nothing goes right and no one seems to be on your side! Peter visits his wise grandfather who shows him how to create a mindfulness jar: he adds sparkles to a jar of clear water for each angry thought he has and then shakes the jar. RELATED: The benefits of meditation for kids His grandfather explains how the agitated, cloudy water is like his agitated mind, full of thoughts. And as the water settles down, and the sparkles settle, it’s just like when you calm down again and can see things more clearly. Grandfather gently takes Peter through the mindfulness jar practice from his upset mind to a quiet place. 2. Visiting Feelings | Lauren Rubenstein Visiting Feelings is a book that also looks at how to be with emotions in a healthy way. Rubenstein encourages kids, through gorgeous illustrations, to treat their feelings like unexpected visitors. How tall is this feeling? What colour and shape is it? Is it warm or cold? By asking these kinds of questions, the author is encouraging kids to observe feelings at arm’s length, to be curious about them, instead of thinking that something is wrong. Make friends with feelings, she says, and listen to what they have to tell you. “There is a growing body of research that shows how simple mindfulness practices – tailored for children – can help kids learn invaluable skills they can use their whole lives.” Rubenstein also gently asks kids to notice where feelings live in their body – another traditional adult practice of noticing the physical qualities of an emotion – like a knot in your stomach, that give you a concrete place to begin exploring the emotion. There is a “Note to Parents” in the back of the book about emotional intelligence and tips on how to help children link mindfulness to emotions. 3. Take the time: Mindfulness for Kids | Maud Roegiers This lovely mindfulness book for children has a powerful message: if you’re feeling bad, do something small to feel better. Be with your friends, feel the cold air on your cheeks, or do something you love. And, whether we’re five years old or 50, when we’re feeling sad or upset, we often feel like we have to fix something or do something complicated to feel better. Focusing instead on small, simple pleasures that are always around us if we take time to look, is a tool of health and well-being your child can nurture throughout their life. The beautiful, heartwarming illustrations in Take the Time... bring the story to life. 4. Zen Shorts | Jon J. Muth This is one of Muth’s delightful mindfulness for children books that features the wise panda, Stillwater. Zen Shorts begins with a large, panda suddenly appearing in Michael, Karl and Addy’s back yard. He’s a mysterious fellow and a storyteller who soon has the children entranced with classic meditation stories put into kids’ language: someone who shows compassion for a robber and the man who says, “Maybe” to a whole series of life events that everyone assumes are “good” or “bad.” Kids also love Zen Happiness, Zen Socks and other books by Muth. Books with mindfulness exercises for kids Each of the following great books has sections explaining the principles and benefits of mindfulness for children, teaching tips and lots of specific mindfulness exercises you can do with your children. 5. Planting Seeds: Practicing Mindfulness with Children | Thich Nhat Hanh and the Plum Village Community This book by beloved Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hanh shines with love and respect for children, and how to nurture their growth through simple meditation practices. Hanh talks about meditation as a way to plant the seeds of self-awareness, relaxing through breath, recognizing your connection to nature, nurture compassion and community, embrace emotions – and more. All the ideas are accompanied by simple, engaging exercises kids can do on their own or with a guide – and many are included on an accompanying CD. RELATED: Thich Nhat Hanh – his life in quotes and teachings My personal favourite to do with kids is the Pebble Meditation. Kids gather four pebbles to represent a flower, mountain, still water and space, and use them in a meditation to emulate each of their qualities: “Fresh like a flower... Solid like a mountain.” This meditation, and others, builds on kids’ imagination and ability to embody positive and resilient states. Every chapter in Planting Seeds is grounded in caring for children, and encouragement to explore their inner and outer world with kindness for their own sake and the sake of all beings. 6. Child’s Mind: Mindfulness Practices to Help Our Children be More Focused, Calm and Relaxed | Christopher Willard This is an excellent mindfulness book for kids if you would like to know more about the psychological applications of meditation for children – for everyday challenges and for kids who are troubled by chronic anxiety or depression. Willard is a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist with a deep experience with mindfulness and meditation. He talks about meditation’s effect on kids’ mental, emotional and physical well-being in easy to understand language, and how parents can use mindfulness to help their children overcome difficulties. “ If you’d like to explore the world of mindfulness books for kids, all of these titles will give you and your child an experienced, caring and fun place to start.” Child's Mind features a creative range of mindfulness practices like The Universe in a Raisin; Hugging Meditation; Everyday Mindfulness, Everyday Games; and, Homesickness Meditation. All encourage kids to mindfully and gently explore what’s happening for them. I use many of his exercises with my young mindfulness students for the balanced way he shows kids how to accept and honour their own feelings, and how to do mindful things to feel better. RELATED: The benefits of meditation for kids 7. Sitting Still Like a Frog: Mindfulness Exercises for Kids (and Their Parents) | Eline Snel If you’d like a short, approachable book about why mindfulness is a great skill for kids, read Sitting Still Like a Frog. Each chapter in the book explains a mindfulness concept or skill, and includes one or two exercises for kids to practice with. Some of the concepts Snel explains are Training your Attention Muscle, Weathering the Storm Inside and The Conveyor Belt of Worries. She uses imagery to great effect to help kids relate to their feelings, thoughts and experiences in entertaining, mindful ways. RELATED: 6 secrets to raising happy children Snel also includes short exercises parents can use with everyday routines, like meals and bedtime. She makes all the concepts fun and has a warm way of communicating. This book also includes a CD with many of the best guided practices. There is also an accompanying activity book with 75 mindfulness games. The takeaway: best mindfulness books for kids So, if you’d like to explore the world of mindfulness books for kids, all of these titles will give you and your child an experienced, caring and fun place to start. The books don’t just talk about mindfulness, they embody mindfulness in the way they talk about children and their needs, and the way they talk to kids in the stories and exercises. Most of these authors have more than one book, so you and your family can enjoy them together for a long time to come. • Main image: shutterstock/Tatiana Bobkova happiness.com | The fine art of being: learn, practise, share Are you a happiness.com member? Sign up for free now to: ■ enjoy our happiness magazine with practical life tips ■ share and support in our happiness forum ■ learn with free online classes in our happiness Academy Meditation | Family activities Written by Ann Vrlak Ann Vrlak is Founder of OneSelf Meditation and a meditation practitioner for over 25 years. She’s a Certified Meditation Teacher for adults and for children (the best job ever!). She loves to share how the perspective and practice of meditation can support people with their everyday stresses and on their journey of self-discovery.

Listening to mindfulness podcasts is a great new way of discovering more about the practice while you're relaxing or on the go. Dee Marques shares her top seven podcasts about staying mindful that can boost your well-being, enrich your life and inspire you further. Are you searching for the best mindfulness podcast but overwhelmed by all the choices online? You're not the only one! Indeed, podcasts have experienced a tremendous surge in popularity recently. Estimates suggest there are more than 800,000 podcast shows available worldwide, and in the UK, it’s thought that more than 7 million people listen to a podcast regularly. Meanwhile, in the US, almost one in three of the population tune in to at least one podcast each month. But podcasts aren’t the only thing that’s growing at a tremendous pace: mindfulness has also become one of the most popular trends in the world of spirituality and well-being. With this in mind, it’s hardly surprising that the number of mindfulness podcasts just keeps increasing – making it harder to find the best one to fit your lifestyle! Why choose a podcast about mindfulness? So, what exactly makes mindfulness podcasts so appealing? After all, there are some great mindfulness apps and mindfulness books that you can use to develop your practice. Well, it’s all a matter of convenience and lifestyle fit. Apps are designed to be mostly interactive in that you need to be paying attention to your phone or tablet. Something similar happens with books – you cannot read a book and at do something else at the same time (and that wouldn't be very mindful!). On the other hand, mindfulness podcasts are much more convenient because they allow you to multi-task. That may seem to go against the whole essence of mindfulness (!), but it can be useful considering how busy we are. You can download episodes so you can listen to them during the daily commute, while you're working out, or when you’re busy with household chores, etc. Also, podcasts tap into our social nature because they’re usually delivered in a conversational format. Another advantage of mindfulness podcasts is that they bring together different points of view and insights that can enrich our learning journey. The best mindfulness podcasts to listen to in 2023 With an ever increasing number of podcasts to choose from, it can be hard to decide which one you should listen to first. We’d like to make things easier for you, so – in no particular order – here’s our selection of the best mindfulness podcasts to listen to in 2023. Let us know what you think of them after you've listened, or what your other favourites are, down in the comments below. Happy listening. 1. 10% Happier First in our list of outstanding mindfulness podcasts is 10% Happier. This podcast is hosted by Dan Harris, a journalist who experienced first hand the benefits of mindfulness and meditation in treating anxiety. Far from only giving his personal views, Dan Harris’ podcast features guest interviews who bring a rich range of views and experiences that will appeal to a wide audience. This podcast will be of interest to people who are sceptical about the benefits of mindfulness, or to those who think that this practice is at odds with being an ambitious high achiever. If you’d like to know more about how to use mindfulness to be both productive and kind, this is the right podcast for you. 2. Mindfulness Mode Mindfulness Mode is an interview-based podcast focusing on both the practical and scientific aspects of mindfulness. The host is Bruce Langford, an established coach who specialises in helping others focus on their goals, manage stress, and achieve higher levels of personal and professional development. RELATED: 7 mindfulness tips for staying engaged The podcast features interviews with experts and discusses how to apply mindfulness to different aspects of our lives. Past episodes have covered topics like using mindful listening, mindfulness in corporate settings, and how to apply mindfulness to improve sports performance. 3. Tara Brach Podcast Tara Brach is an author, teacher, and practitioner who runs meditation retreats and workshops in Europe and the United States. She’s also a recognized figure in the world of Buddhism and other Eastern spiritual practices. After years of intensive practice and research, she's now considered a leading authority in the use of mindfulness strategies in psychotherapy. • JOIN US! Sign-up to happiness.com and connect with our caring community • In addition to running online mindfulness courses, she hosts an incredibly popular podcast that gets more than 1.5 million downloads every month – definitely one of the greatest mindfulness podcasts out there judging by the those figures. Her podcast episodes come in a variety of formats, from short talks to guided Tara Brach meditations. 4. The Rubin Mindfulness Meditation This podcast is run by the Rubin Museum of Art. Based in New York City, this institution has made its mission to share with others information about the values, beliefs, and culture of Himalayan cultures. As such, mindfulness plays a crucial role in the museum’s ethos, to the point that they broadcast weekly podcast episodes on this topic. RELATED: Mindfulness vs meditation – what's the definition The podcast is designed to appeal to people from all walks of life, whether they already have some knowledge of mindfulness or not. Each podcast lasts 45 minutes and approximately half of it is devoted to a guided mindfulness meditation session delivered by expert teachers. This is a real bonus if you want a practical element to your mindful podcast which you can enjoy there and then. 5. On Being On Being is an award-winning podcast created by Krista Tippett. This show was launched with the intention of being a digital gathering place for anyone interested in taking a more mindful and spiritual approach to what it means to be human. While the podcast doesn’t exclusively focus on mindfulness, awareness of being is at the core of it and is also one of the key elements involved in developing a mindfulness practice. “You can download mindfulness podcasts and listen to them during the daily commute, while you're working out, or when you’re busy with household chores.” This podcast has more than 200 million downloads and has been aired for 17 years – quite a feat in itself, which definitely speaks of its popularity. On Being is delivered in conversation format, and former guests have included best-selling authors, philosophers, and spiritual leaders such as Elizabeth Gilbert, Alain de Botton and Desmond Tutu. 6. Untangle Untangle is another interview-based podcast that releases new episodes every Tuesday. This podcast is co-hosted by former social media executive Patricia Karpas and Ariel Garten, who is known for developing a headband that helps improve the quality of meditation sessions. RELATED: The 5 best happiness apps to improve well-being After experiencing the transformative benefits of mindfulness in their own lives, the hosts decided to launch a podcast to help other people reap the same benefits. Episodes last anything between 25 and 45 minutes and the interviews discuss the real life applications of mindfulness. 7. The Mindful Coping Podcast You may want to tune into the Mindful Coping podcast to learn how your mindfulness practice can help you cope with the stress of daily life. Your host is Jeff Krisman, who has been studying and practising mindfulness for over two decades. RELATED: Happiness podcasts – 8 that we rate In each episode, Jeff shares valuable insights on how mindfulness has helped him cope with difficult situations: from handling stress during the festive season to being overwhelmed by self-pity or disappointment. This podcast is characterised by a very relatable human-to-human tone that makes it very easy and pleasant to listen to. Mindfulness podcasts: a useful tool to live better Podcasts are convenient way of stepping up your mindfulness practice, or to get started with one. One of their main advantages is that you can listen to them while you work on other things. These shows deliver valuable insights that can help you live better and happier. We hope you’ll be able to find a podcast that speaks to you in our selection of best mindfulness podcasts. Happy listening! ● Main image: shutterstock/Flamingo Images Do you listen to any of these mindfulness podcasts? We'd love to know which are your favourites. Let the community know in the comments below... happiness.com | The fine art of being: learn, practise, share Are you a happiness.com member yet? Sign up for free now to: ■ enjoy our happiness magazine with practical life tips ■ share and support others in our happiness forum ■ develop with free online classes in our happiness Academy Stress management | Music | Depression Written by Dee Marques A social sciences graduate with a keen interest in languages, communication, and personal development strategies. Dee loves exercising, being out in nature, and discovering warm and sunny places where she can escape the winter.

Warst du auf der Arbeit jemals gestresst? Damit bist du nicht alleine. In der Tat machen Stress und Depressionen etwa die Hälfte aller verlorenen Arbeitstage in Großbritannien aus. Finde deinen Stresspegel heraus, indem du unseren kurzen Fragebogen ausfüllst und erfahre wie du mit Stress effektiv umgehen kannst. Was sind die Hauptursachen für den Arbeitsstress? Z.B. eine Kombination aus den folgenden Faktoren: Hohe Arbeitsbelastung, unklare Erwartungen, mangelhafte Planung und die fehlende Fähigkeit, Entscheidungen zu treffen, Überlastung bei den Zuständigkeiten und Grenzen und letztlich Absprachen, die nicht eingehalten werden. Mit Stress im Beruf bist du nicht allein: Laut einer 2019 in Großbritannien veröffentlichten Statistik litten 2018/19 etwas mehr als 600.000 Arbeitnehmer*innen an Stress, Depressionen oder Angstzuständen (neu auftretend oder länger anhaltend) [1]. Im gleichen Zeitraum gingen aufgrund dieser Krankheiten knapp 13 Millionen Arbeitstage verloren. Stress, Depressionen oder Angstzustände machten 44 Prozent aller arbeitsbedingten Krankheitsfälle und 54 Prozent aller Arbeitsausfälle aus. Um die Faktoren, die Stress bei der Arbeit verursachen besser zu verstehen, haben wir den Fragebogen zu Stress im Beruf entwickelt. Es dauert weniger als drei Minuten, gibt dir Aufschluss über deine persönlichen Erfahrungen und inspiriert dich dazu, über die Ursachen von Stress bei der Arbeit nachzudenken, auf die du in deinem Job stößt, damit du deinen Arbeitsstress besser verstehen und ihm konsequenter Paroli bieten kannst. Fragebogen zum Stress im Beruf Nachdem du das Ergebnis deines Fragebogens zu Stress bei der Arbeit erhalten hast ist es Zeit, dieses zu analysieren. Die Ergebnisse liegen auf einer Skala von Null bis 60, wobei Null überhaupt keinen Stress bedeutet und 60 eine extreme und sogar gefährliche Menge an Stress bei der Arbeit. Aber auch dazwischen gilt: Währet den Anfängen! Frühzeitig Stressfaktoren zu erkennen erspart dir unnötige Belastung in deinem Job. Was denkst du über dein Ergebnis? Entspricht es deinen Erwartungen? Teile deine Einschätzung im happiness-Forum. Was verursacht Stress? Stress bezieht sich im Allgemeinen auf zwei Dinge: Die psychologische Wahrnehmung von Druck (real und imaginiert/vorweggenommen) und die Reaktion des Körpers darauf. Das Vermeiden eines Unfalls auf dem Weg zur Arbeit führt zu Stress, sowie soziale Spannungen oder die Angst, für ein schlechtes Ergebnis bei der Arbeit verantwortlich gemacht zu werden. Dies alles löst die Freisetzung von Stresshormonen aus, einschließlich Adrenalin und Cortisol. Diese Hormone erhöhen den Herzschlag und die Durchblutung, um schnelles Handeln, schnelles Atmen, konzentrierte Aufmerksamkeit und mehr zu unterstützen. Diese lebensrettende körperliche Reaktion ist jedoch lediglich dazu geeignet kurzfristige, akute Probleme zu lösen. Was ist chronischer Stress? Während gelegentlicher Stress motivierend und anregend sein kann – sogar lebensrettend – ist chronischer Stress am Arbeitsplatz nicht nur für unsere geistige, sondern auch für unsere körperliche Gesundheit schädlich. Zu den Symptomen von anhaltendem, chronischem Stress zählen unter anderem Kopfschmerzen, Schlaflosigkeit oder Einschlafprobleme, ein rasender Herzschlag, Magenschmerzen, Muskelverspannungen und Konzentrationsschwierigkeiten. Chronischer Stress kann auch ohne schwerwiegende Vorkommnisse auftreten, wenn über erwartete Probleme, Veränderungen und Herausforderungen endlos gegrübelt wird. Jede Situation, die wir als bedrohlich empfinden oder in der wir uns an eine Veränderung anpassen müssen kann die Stressreaktion auslösen. Dies ist nicht unbedingt der beste Weg, um mit anhaltenden Schwierigkeiten wie unrealistischen Anforderungen bei der Arbeit oder Problemen mit der Hierarchie in einem Unternehmen umzugehen. Wenn die Stressreaktion kontinuierlich ausgelöst wird, bleiben Geist und Körper in höchster Alarmbereitschaft, was im Laufe der Zeit zu Verschleiß führt, da wir nicht in den wichtigen Zustand der Ruhe und Erholung zurückfinden. In der Tat definiert Segen's Medical Dictionary chronischen Stress als: „Ein Zustand anhaltender Anspannung durch interne oder externe Stressfaktoren [Ursachen von Stress], der verschiedene körperliche Manifestationen verursachen kann – z. B. Asthma, Rückenschmerzen, Arrhythmien, Müdigkeit, Kopfschmerzen, Bluthochdruck, Reizdarmsyndrom, Geschwüre – und das Immunsystem unterdrückt .” [2] In ähnlicher Weise heißt es bei Wikipedia: „Während die unmittelbaren Auswirkungen von Stress [Hormonen] in einer bestimmten kurzfristigen Situation von Vorteil sind, führt eine langfristige Belastung zu einem [konstant] hohen Spiegel dieser Hormone. Dies kann zu hohem Blutdruck (und anschließend zu Herzerkrankungen), Schädigung des Muskelgewebes, Wachstumshemmung, Unterdrückung des Immunsystems und Schädigung der psychischen Gesundheit führen.“ [3] Wie können wir Stress abbauen? Hier müssen wir zwischen inneren und äußeren Stressfaktoren unterscheiden. Stressbewältigung ist nicht dazu gedacht, inakzeptable und vergiftete Arbeitsbedingungen zu ertragen, sondern uns gesund zu halten und auf ruhige und produktive Weise Verbesserungen im Umgang mit uns selbst am Arbeitsplatz zu erreichen. Der erste und wichtigste Schritt ist die Erkenntnis, dass wir tatsächlich gestresst sind. Nur die Akzeptanz der Tatsache, dass Stress vorhanden ist ermöglicht es uns, etwas dagegen zu unternehmen. Obwohl Stress oft unvermeidlich ist, kannst du ihm begegnen, indem du die Reaktion deines Körpers kontrollierst. Bewegung, Meditation, das Abrufen von Entspannungsreaktion und Achtsamkeit sind großartige Stresskiller. Indem wir unserem Stress am Arbeitsplatz aktiv begegnen wechseln wir, was die Stressreaktion angeht, vom passiven Ausgeliefertsein zur aktiven Entscheidung, wie wir auf die Situation reagieren. Zu akzeptieren, dass es Stress gibt, bedeutet nicht, dass wir ihn ertragen müssen, sondern dass wir ihn als das erkennen, was er ist. Wir können die Situation analysieren und frei wählen, wie wir innerlich und in Bezug auf das Unternehmen, für das wir arbeiten, den Stressfaktoren begegnen wollen. Wir haben mehr Klarheit, sind in der Lage, andere Standpunkte wirklich anzuhören und zu verstehen und zufriedenstellende Lösungen zu finden, unter Berücksichtigung aller Beteiligten. Wir können schwierige Situationen geschickter meistern und uns der Mechanismen am Arbeitsplatz bewusst werden, die unnötigen Arbeitsaufwand verursachen, und können sie daher ruhig zur Sprache bringen und bestenfalls verändern. Somit können wir langfristig Stressfaktoren reduzieren und chronischen Stress abbauen. Weitere relevante Artikel 11 wissenschaftliche Wege, Stress zu reduzieren MBSR - Meditation based stress reduction - Kostenloser achtwöchiger online MBSR Kurs (auf Englisch) Fünf Übungen für mehr Achtsamkeit im Alltag Vorteile von Meditation: 9 wissenschaftlich Belege Resilienz: 5 Strategien für mehr Belastbarkeit In 6 Schritten zu wahrem Glück im Job Quellen [1] Work-related stress, anxiety or depression statistics in Great Britain, 2019 – https://www.hse.gov.uk/statistics/causdis/stress.pdf [13.05.2020] [2] https://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/chronic+stress [3] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronic_stress Stress – Harvard Health https://www.health.harvard.edu/topics/stress [12.05.2020] How stress affects your health – American Psychological Association https://www.apa.org/topics/stress-health [12.05.2020] Stress: Psychology and Biology – Encyclopaedia Britannica https://www.britannica.com/science/stress-psychology-and-biology [12.05.2020] Defining Stress – Explore IM: UCLA Collaborative Centers for Integrative Medicine https://exploreim.ucla.edu/mind-body/defining-stress/ [12.05.2020] Stress – Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/stress [12.05.2020] Images: Alexander Schimmeck, Simon Abrams, Marvin Meyer on Unsplash Geschrieben von Tine Steiss Tine ist Teil des happiness.com Teams. 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Interviewer Veronika Eicher still had the distant flavor of raisins in her mouth – from finishing the 'raisin meditation' on Dave Potter’s MBSR course – when the pair sat down to talk. She asked him about his background in Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, the motivation behind his free course, dealing with chronic pain, and meditation. When was the last time you ate mindfully? Dave Potter, fully-certified Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) instructor and retired psychotherapist, laughs before answering: “Well, it’s all a matter of degree. Even though I'm a mindfulness teacher, there are times when I’m not eating very mindfully. For instance, last night my wife and I talked continuously through dinner, and I was not at all mindful of what I was eating. In a previous life as a marketing manager at Intel, many of our meetings were over meals and we were expected to do business and eat at the same time. I used to tell people that I didn’t progress any higher than I did on Intel’s corporate ladder because I never learned to eat and talk at the same time.” Although Dave didn’t stay at Intel for long, he spent over 20 years in the computer industry, first as a free-ance computer consultant and later founding a software company that grew to a dozen employees and customers all over the world. At age 51, although he loved technology, he came to realize that he was far more interested in people than computers, and he went back to school to get a graduate degree in counseling and became a psychotherapist. It was then that he started teaching mindfulness, which led me to my next question: How did you first get to know MBSR? “I found MBSR about the time I began working as a therapist, but I was not new to meditation, having meditated since I was in high school. Even though I was already a long-term meditator and didn’t think I had much to learn, after taking a training class from Jon Kabat-Zinn, I was impressed with MBSR and how teachable it was. MBSR, as Jon Kabat-Zinn taught it, is neither full of esoteric terms, nor religious. Instead, the language Jon used was so simple that wasn’t until Dave saw Jon teach the MBSR course that he understood the tremendous power of MBSR and this particular way of teaching meditation. “The language is very simple: ‘Pay attention to your experience while you are having it’, but embedded in the MBSR course was such depth and meaning that I wanted to share it with others, so I became certified to teach by the University of Massachusetts Medical School, where Jon Kabat-Zinn founded MBSR,” Dave explained. RELATED: 7 mindfulness tips for staying engaged Eating mindfully can be one of many daily opportunities to practice mindfulness Many people take the course to reduce the level of stress in their lives. You say that when you tell new students that they will need to dedicate 30 minutes a day to meditation, they often say: “Where will I find the time? This will make me more stressed, not less!” Isn’t that ironic? “In the beginning, many people do feel that it is more stressful, that’s true. This is because they are now paying closer attention to what is happening inside them, and they have begun to notice things that were there all along, but under the surface. But, typically, after about three or four weeks, things settle down. What most people discover by that point is that although their day is technically 30 minutes shorter, the rest of the day is more productive and much less stressful than it was before. So people do see the fruits of the practice, but often not until three or four weeks into the course. That's one of the reasons the course is eight weeks long and not three.” Discover more about Dave Potter's free MBSR course What can participants of the course expect to happen? “At first, it feels as if nothing is happening. You sit in meditation, your mind wanders, you pull it back, your mind wanders again, you pull it back again, and on and on, in a seemingly endless cycle. It looks like nothing productive is happening. But there is magic in this process that is not at all apparent while it’s happening. The point of the meditation is not to stop thoughts, but to change your relationship to them, and the critical place in which that relationship can change is when you notice your mind has been wandering. What people typically say in the beginning is, “I’m no good at this, my mind is wandering all the time, I can’t do this.” They're frustrated that they can’t get their mind to stay in one place and beat themselves up about it. But it's not about keeping the mind in one place: it's about what happens in that moment when you discover that you mind has wandered. It’s about accepting that fact and being kind to yourself at that moment.” RELATED: 9 science-backed benefits of meditation Jack Kornfield often tells a story about training a puppy to fetch. In the beginning, you throw the stick and the puppy doesn’t bring it back. But you don’t give up, and you throw the stick many, many times until finally, almost unexpectedly, the puppy brings the stick back to you. At that point you don’t say, “Bad dog!! Why didn’t you bring the stick back before now?!?”. You say, “GOOD BOY!!! GOOD JOB!” and give the puppy a treat. This encourages the puppy to do it again and strengthens your good relationship with your puppy. “It’s the same with our mind. We train our students to recognize that those moments when they notice their mind has wandered are moments of awakening. These moments of awakening are cause for celebration, not self-criticism. Every single time you notice your mind has been wandering, you have just broken a life-long habit. This is what we aim for in our meditation.” Train your meditative mind like a puppy: with patience and treats! I must admit, I thought that when you meditate long enough – perhaps like you as a life-long meditator – that at some point your mind doesn’t wander anymore. Is that incorrect? “It’s not true that advanced meditators have learned to stop their thoughts entirely. Eliminating thoughts is actually not the goal of this type of meditation. Thinking is not a function we aim to eliminate. We need thinking to plan, to organize, to build, to create. Thoughts are important, but they are not the most important aspect of our experience, and, in fact, the thoughts we do have are often untrue or misleading. Tara Brach often says, ‘thoughts are real, but not true.’ RELATED: Tara Brach – psychologist, meditation author and teacher It’s true that there are types of meditations designed to perfect concentration but this type of meditation, when combined with a single-minded goal of achieving states of absorption and bliss, don’t address the realities of day-to-day life. There's a story about a monk who goes up to a mountain cave to meditate in isolation. After years of practice, he perfects his concentration to the point where he is in almost continuous bliss and decides he is ready to come down from the mountain. Five minutes after arriving to town, one of the vendors at the market makes an insulting comment and he blows up in anger, seemingly undoing his years of practice in just moments. “People do see the fruits of MBSR, but often not until three or four weeks into the course. That's one of the reasons the course is eight weeks long and not three.” The type of meditation taught in MBSR includes both concentrative meditation and a more open-ended meditation that can be accessed in the midst of daily life, in which the meditator is fully aware of what’s happening around him and in him, on a moment-to-moment basis.” Your MBSR instructor: Dave Potter Dave Potter and I are talking more about the power of our minds. He shares the example of a Buddhist monk, Matthieu Ricard, who's had 50,000 hours of meditation practice over 30 years (that’s five hours a day – every day!) and who has been extensively studied by psychologists and neuroscientists. Paul Ekman, a University of California psychologist, suspected that Ricard would have a very low “startle response”, which has been shown to correspond to anxiety; the more anxious a person is, the stronger the physiological response to being startled. In this laboratory test, the subject is wired up to instrumentation and the physiological response to a very loud sound, similar to a gun-shot, is measured. When Ekman tested Ricard, he had to do it a second time because he couldn’t believe what his instruments were telling him about Ricard’s reaction. Ricard’s physiological response was lower than any subject he’d ever tested. In fact, it was lower than medical science had up to that point thought possible. When he asked Ricard how he did that (expecting he would say he brought his attention to a single point and blocked everything else out), Ricard said he did the opposite – he said that instead of narrowing his attention, he widened it, imagining himself to be as big as the universe, so large that it could easily absorb any sound or disturbance. He said he heard the sound very clearly, but it wasn’t bothersome to him due to his having widened his perspective to include and accept absolutely everything that came into awareness. Could this technique also be a way that MBSR participants learn to deal with discomforting feelings or chronic pain? By imagining the biggest pain and experience as less painful within the practice? The course doesn’t eliminate pain. For instance, people who have a chronic pain condition have typically tried everything and there is nothing doctors can prescribe that is safe that would eliminate the pain. In the MBSR course we aren’t working on eliminating the pain, but changing our relationship to it. We teach our students to work with difficult emotions and physical pain in a paradoxical way, something we introduce in Week 5, in a practice called “Turning Towards”. Students learn through this practice, building on skills they’ve learned in the first four weeks, that they can be with difficult feelings or sensation without being alarmed. RELATED: Mindfulness quotes – 10 sayings to inspire and ground you In the case of chronic pain, instead of trying to make it go away, which of course doesn't work, we ask students to get curious about it. Without labeling the discomfort as “pain”, we have them investigate the actual physical sensations. For instance, is it sharp or throbbing, large or small, precisely where is it located, what are its boundaries? By examining it closely, in a curious, non-fearful way, they discover that their “pain” is not a static thing, that their experience of it shifts when they're curious about it in this way. “Through MBSR we aren’t working on eliminating the pain, but on changing our relationship to it.” Then, after exploring the difficult area, we ask them to move their attention to a part of the body that is relatively relaxed, and stay there for a moment, noticing what kind of sensations they have there, maybe warmth or softness, or simply freedom from pain. This can look like we’re asking them to distract themselves, but we are simply having them shift attention to another part of their body, one that is actually connected to the difficult area. Then, after spending a few minutes there, they go back to the difficult area, and back and forth. By doing this a few times, the students experience the discomfort as only part of them, and that it’s not fixed and unchangeable. In this way, the student learns to see and experience the difficult area in a larger context, similar to the way that Matthieu Ricard did with the loud sound in the “startle” test. So, in that sense, it is a widening of awareness and perspective that makes the pain less difficult. Probably the most gifted and skilled meditation teacher for dealing with chronic pain is Vidmayala Burch. She is founder of Breathworks in the UK and understands chronic pain because she has dealt with serious, debilitating pain she has had her entire adult life, including now. She is a gifted teacher and role-model for those dealing with chronic pain. Vidyamala often uses pillows to demonstrate how we compound physical (or emotional) pain with fear and worry, having a student sit in the center of the room with a pillow on their lap, saying that the pillow represents the physical pain, the difficult sensations themselves (or problematic life event). Then, on top of this pillow, another is added, representing a fear or worry they have about the pain, such as the fear that the pain will get worse. Then they add another, maybe about the worry that if it keeps up they won’t be able to work and support themselves, and another, and another, each one representing a specific worry or fear, until the pillows are stacked so high they are higher than the student’s head. Then Vidmayala would ask them to remove the pillows of worry and fear one by one, letting go of each one until all that remains in their lap is the first pillow representing the actual physical sensations. That pillow is still there, but much less troublesome than it was when buried under all the other pillows of fear and worry that were added to the actual physical pain (or problematic life event). Pillow practice for pain: MBSR was originally designed for pain patients The 'Pillow Practice' with Vidyamala Burch was mind-opening for me, as a chronic pain patient. Is this what mindfulness is about? Exactly. Being mindful is about realizing what is actually happening as well as noticing that we are compounding the situation with our fears and worries. In Buddhist terms you would say there is the first arrow which is the difficulty itself and the second arrow is all the worries and fears we have about that. We can’t always do anything about the first arrow, but the second arrow that is magnifying the difficulty can be removed. You were one of the first teachers to provide us with your MBSR course for free in our happiness academy and you also provide the course on your website palousemindfulness.com free of charge. What was your motivation for this? “There are a couple of answers to that. The first is: “Why not?”. The fact that I can even say this is because I’m retired and don’t need extra income and because of the efficiencies and reach of the internet. But, most importantly, I knew there are people who cannot afford to pay for a mindfulness course, and in many parts of the world there is no access to an in-person MBSR class. My intention was to make mindfulness as widely available as possible, no matter what the financial situation or geographic location. I’m fortunate that this is also the intention of most of the other teachers of mindfulness, even those who are well-known and can command high fees for their teaching. World-renowned mindfulness teachers such as Jon Kabat-Zinn, Vidyamala Burch and Tara Brach have given me their written permission to use their videos and writings without any fee so that mindfulness can be more widely available. “The course does not make life perfect. It's about being at peace with not feeling peaceful.” As a former psychotherapist, it makes me happy to know that, through the Palouse Mindfulness course, people are being helped. Every day, I get letters from people who say the course has changed their lives. As a retired therapist whose work was about helping people, what could be better? RELATED: Meditation vs mindfulness – what's the difference? The course does not make life perfect. It’s not about being peaceful all the time. Not even the Dalai Lama is peaceful all the time. It's about being at peace with not feeling peaceful. When I hear from my students that this is what they’ve learned and that they are happier and more resilient than they were before, this is worth more to me than any monetary compensation.” Finally, do you still meditate on a daily basis? “I do. I’ve had a few periods in my life when I didn’t maintain a formal sitting practice, figuring that if I just lived my life mindfully, letting 'life' itself be my meditation, that would be enough. While that might be true, in principle, because any experience can be made into a mindful experience, during those periods without a formal practice, much of my life wasn’t very mindful. So, about 30 years ago, after being an on-again, off-again meditator, I committed to a regular, daily meditation practice of half an hour every morning and haven’t stopped since, except for a handful of days during that 30-year period. I don’t meditate to have some peace experience while I’m meditating, although that can be pleasant; I do it because of how it affects the rest of my day. My morning meditation creates a resilience and aliveness during the rest of the day that wouldn’t be there if I didn’t have this practice. My morning practice is actually fairly simple, similar to what in Soto Zen is called “zazen” or “just sitting”, a time that I don’t have to be anywhere else or doing anything else, a time that is just for me. Years ago, when my daughter was young, we took a parenting course from Barbara Coloroso and at the end of the course, she said, “I want you to spend 30 minutes a day with the person you are going to be with for the rest of your life with… and I don’t mean your spouse, because they may go before you. I mean you.” ● Thank you Dave, for the talk and for your work. Enroll here for the free MBSR course at the happiness academy. And don't forget to join in the MBSR course discussion in the forum: share your experiences and ideas with other members. Watch the full interview with Dave Potter: Interview by Veronika Eicher Veronika is a freelance writer. She likes to spend her free time working on her dream of a farm. On Instagram she writes about climate crises, nature and sustainable living.

Die weltweite Verbreitung des Coronavirus wirkt sich negativ auf unser Stress- und Angstniveau aus. Zum "Stress Awareness Month" April, zeigt dir Dee Marques 11 wissenschaftlich fundierte Möglichkeiten, wie du Stress reduzieren kannst. Stress ist eine der größten gesundheitlichen Herausforderungen der heutigen Zeit. Während eine geringe Menge von positivem Stress gut für uns sein kann, besteht die Gefahr, dass anhaltender chronischer Stress ernsthaften Gesundheitsproblemen führen oder diese verschlimmern kann. Da der Coronavirus derzeit auch die Gesundheit und das Wohlbefinden der Welt testet, merken viele von uns ein erhöhtes Stress- und Angstniveau. Seit 1992 ist der April in den USA der Monat des Stressbewusstseins. In diesem Jahr ist klar, dass die Notwendigkeit an einem Bewusstsein über Stress so groß wie nie zuvor ist. In Amerika geben mehr als 55 Prozent der Menschen an, sich tagsüber gestresst zu fühlen - eine Zahl, die weit über dem globalen Durchschnitt liegt (35 Prozent). In Deutschland fühlen sich sechs von zehn Menschen beruflich oder privat gelegentlich gestresst, 23 Prozent sogar häufig. In der Tat ist Stress nicht „nur Stress“, da er sowohl unsere geistige als auch unsere körperliche Gesundheit beeinflusst (siehe: Burnout). Studien zeigen einen engen Zusammenhang zwischen Stress und psychischen Erkrankungen wie Depressionen und Angstzuständen. Andere Nebenwirkungen von nicht verarbeiteten Stress sind Wut, geringes Selbstwertgefühl, Einsamkeit und ein schlechteres Gedächtnis. In Bezug auf die möglichen Auswirkungen auf den Körper kann Stress alles verursachen: Von Kopfschmerzen über Verdauungsstörungen von Schlaflosigkeit, Haut- und Haarprobleme bis hin zu erhöhten Chancen, Herzerkrankungen zu entwickeln. 11 Möglichkeiten, sich schnell stressfrei zu fühlen Da Stress so weit verbreitet scheint, fragst du dich vielleicht, ob es überhaupt möglich ist, stressfrei zu werden? Komplett stressfrei zu sein, ist ziemlich schwer zu erreichen Aber es gibt definitiv Dinge, die du tun kannst, um deinen Stress abzubauen. Die wichtigsten erfordern weder viel Zeit noch Geld. Hier sind 11 Ideen, mit denen du versuchen kannst, Stress abzubauen und die Vorteile schnell zu spüren. 1. Die Kraft der Zimmerpflanzen Einer der ersten Schritte, die du in Angriff nehmen kannst, ist die Schaffung einer stressfreien Umgebung. Das ist nicht immer in großem Maßstab möglich, aber es gibt kleine Dinge, die du in deinem Zuhause und in deinem persönlichen Arbeitsbereich tun kannst. Zimmerpflanzen, so bescheiden sie auch erscheinen mögen, sind in letzter Zeit aus gutem Grund immer beliebter geworden - sie können deine Fähigkeit, mit Stress umzugehen, enorm steigern. In einer japanischen Studie wurden die Gefühle, die durch das Umpflanzen einer Pflanze entstehen, mit denen am Computer verglichen. Das Ergebnis zeigte, dass die Gruppe, die an einem Computer arbeitete, einen höheren Blutdruck hatte, während sich diejenigen, die mit Pflanzen interagierten, ruhig und beruhigt fühlten. In der Tat kann das Umsorgen von Zimmerpflanzen zu deiner häuslichen Umgebung einen großen Unterschied machen. Pflanzen können den Blutdruck senken und Stress reduzieren Shutterstock / Amilao 2. Atemtechniken Unser Körper reagiert auf Stress mit einem sogenannten Overdrive. Studien bestätigen einen Zusammenhang zwischen langsamer kontrollierter Atmung und dem Nervensystem: Tiefes Atmen erinnert das Gehirn daran, dass es Zeit ist, sich zu beruhigen. Das Gehirn sendet daraufhin dieselbe Botschaft an den Körper, um die Herzfrequenz zu stabilisieren und Verspannungen in den Muskeln zu lösen. Wenn du mit den Vorteilen einer kontrollierten Atmung nicht vertraut bist, kannst du mit deine Angstzustände mit verschiedenenTechniken kontrollieren und dich stressfrei fühlen. Einige Techniken stellen wir in diesem Artikel über mehr Achtsamkeit im Alltag vor. 3. Körperliche Aktivität Bewegung verursacht einen Anstieg der Endorphine, einer Form von Glückshormonen. Um einen stressfreien Zustand zu erreichen, ist regelmäßige Bewegung und Sport wichtig. Die Art und Häufigkeit des Trainings hängt von dir persönlich und deinem allgemeinen Gesundheitszustand ab. Als Richtlinie ergab eine medizinische Studie aus Finnland, dass moderates Aerobic-Training am besten für einen höheren Endorphinspiegel geeignet ist. Zu den Formen mäßig anstrengender Übungen zählen Radfahren, flottes Gehen, Tanzen und Wassergymnastik. Als Auswirkung von COVID-19 können wir das meiste davon derzeit nicht tun. Aber auch in der eigenen Wohnung, im Haus oder Garten gibt es Möglichkeiten der Bewegung, um die Stimmung und geistige Gesundheit positiv zu beeinflussen. 4. Körperliche Entspannung Um schnell stressfrei zu werden, ist es besonders effektiv, zu den oben genanten Punkten eine Mischung aus stimmungshebenden Übungen und beruhigenden Entspannungstechniken hinzuzufügen. Entspannungstechniken wie Tai Chi, Meditation, Yoga oder Achtsamkeit werden seit Jahrhunderten praktiziert. Das bewusste Entspannen deines Körpers oder Teilen davon, kann deine Herzfrequenz verlangsamen und den Stresshormonspiegel senken. Es stärkt außerdem das Vertrauen in dich selbst, mit Problemen umzugehen. Einige Techniken, die du ausprobieren kannst, sind progressive Muskelentspannung, Massagetherapie, Qi Gong und Ashtanga Yoga. 5. Experimentiere mit ätherischen Ölen Aromatherapie gibt es schon seit Tausenden von Jahren. Schon im alten Ägypten waren sich die Menschen der Kraft aromatischer Kräuter und ihrer Rolle für das Wohlbefinden bewusst. Die Organe, die für unseren Geruchssinn verantwortlich sind, sind direkt mit den Teilen des Gehirns verbunden, die mit Emotionen verknpüpft sind. Daher kann die Exposition gegenüber bestimmten Gerüchen die Stimmung positiv beeinflussen und zur Verringerung von Angstzuständen beitragen. Aromatherapie: Schnüffeln, um Stress abzubauen Shutterstock / Madeleine Steinbach 6. Stell dir eine stressfreie Playlist zusammen Wir beginnen erst zu verstehen, welchen starken Einfluss Musik hat und inwieweit sie Stress abbaut. Wenn, wie der Dramatiker William Congreve aus dem 17. Jahrhundert sagte, „Musik Reize hat, um ein wildes Tier zu beruhigen“, kann sie uns doch sicher auch helfen, einen stressfreien Zustand zu erreichen, oder nicht? Eine Studie verglich das Stressniveau bei chirurgischen Patienten, die vor einer Operation Musik hörten mit dem von Patienten ohne musikalische Vorbereitung. Das Ergebnis war, dass diejenigen, die Musik hörten, einen niedrigeren Blutdruck hatten und sich weniger ängstlich fühlten. Einige Klänge und Rhythmen können effektiver sein als andere. 7. Nichts tun Sich von Aufgaben oder Verantwortlichkeiten überfordert zu fühlen, ist eine der häufigsten Ursachen für Stress. Manchmal ist die beste Antwort, alles auf Eis zu legen und nichts weiter zu tun, als auf sich selbst aufzupassen: etwas, das viele von uns während der COVID-19-Pandemie tun. Wenn es keine Option ist, nichts zu tun, solltest du weniger tun oder Dinge langsam und achtsam tun. Achtsamkeit gibt dir die Möglichkeit, langsamer zu werden, dich zu konzentrieren und dich deiner Reaktionen bewusster zu werden. Achtsamkeit wurde auch mit einer geringeren Aktivität in der Amygdala in Verbindung gebracht, dem Teil des Gehirns, der Angst- und Stressreaktionen auslöst. 8. Visualisierungstechniken Visualisierungstechniken können beruhigend wirken, wenn der Stress zu groß wird. Tauch in eine Szene ein, die dich glücklich und entspannt macht, und rufe dir jeden sensorischen Aspekt der Szene ins Gedächtnis, von den Gerüchen über die Sehenswürdigkeiten bis hin zu den Geräuschen. Indem du dich auf das sensorische Erlebnis als Ganzes konzentrieren, lenk deine Aufmerksamkeit von Stressquellen weg. Sobald dies geschieht, signalisiert dein Gehirn deinem Körper auch, sich zu entspannen. Forscher haben herausgefunden, dass Visualisierung (auch bezeichnet als "geführte Bilder") die Stimmung verbessern und depressive Symptome bei Multiple-Sklerose-Patienten verbessern kann, so dass sie sicherlich auch im Alltag einen positiven Effekt haben können. 9. Teile deine Sorgen Geteilte Sorgen sind halbe Sorgen. Zögere nicht, mit jemandem in deiner Nähe zu sprechen, wenn Stress überhand nimmt. Das Teilen deiner Sorgen kann ein Gefühl der Erleichterung hervorrufen. Wissenschaftliche Erkenntnisse unterstützen diese Annahme. So ergab eine Studie, dass die Offenlegung von Sorgen- und Angstgefühlen gegenüber sympathischen Personen das Stresshormon Cortisol reduziert. Manchmal ist es einfach, die Sorgen mit einer fremden Person zu besprechen. Die Gesprächstherapie ist wirksam beim Stressabbau, sei es persönlich oder telefonisch. Sprechen ist ein Weg, um Stress zu reduzieren. Shutterstock / Monkey Business Images 10. B-Vitamine zur Unterstützung gegen Stress Wusstest du, dass bestimmte Vitaminmängel zu einem erhöhten Stressgefühl führen können? Eine stressfreie Ernährung sollte besonders reich an Vitamin-B-Komplexen sein. Einige Forscher teilen die Annahme, dass diese Vitamine Homocystein senken können. Homocystein ist eine Aminosäure, die in Stresssituationen ansteigt. Es ist daher eine gute Idee, deinen Speiseplan zu überarbeiten, um sicherzustellen, dass er gute Mengen an Vitamin B-reichen Lebensmitteln wie Vollkornprodukten, Hülsenfrüchten, dunklem Blattgemüse, Samen und Nüssen enthält. Wenn du dies zur Gewohnheit machst, kannst du deine Stimmung verbessern und die durch Stress verursachte geistige Müdigkeit verringern. VERWANDTES THEMA: Gute Laune Lebensmittel 11. Ehre dein wahres Selbst Manchmal ist Stress ein Ergebnis interner Konflikte. Es gibt Situationen, in denen wir uns entscheiden müssen: Wollen wir das tun, was wir in unseren Herzen als richtig empfinden? Oder tun wir etwas, um anderen zu gefallen und stellen unsere Grundwerte hinten an? Wir alle haben bestimmte Werte, die unser Leben bestimmen. Nimm dir etwas Zeit, um dich daran zu erinnern, welche für dich am wichtigsten sind. Einer der Schritte, um stressfrei zu sein, besteht darin, Spannungen oder Diskrepanzen zwischen deiner privaten Person und deiner öffentlichen Person zu beseitigen. Diese Ausnahmezeit ist deine Gelegenheit, genau das zu tun und sich besser zu fühlen. ● Fazit Lass in diesen Zeiten nicht zu, dass Stress und steigende Angstzustände dein Glück beeinträchtigen. Obwohl wir alle stressige Situationen erleben, gibt es bis keinen Grund, uns davon überwältigen zu lassen. Wir verfügen über Werkzeuge, um unser inneres Selbst zu stärken und schnell stressfrei zu werden. Lasst sie uns anwenden! Warum also nicht den Stress Awareness Month nutzen und das Bewusstsein für Stress in einen stressfreien Alltag nutzen? Hauptbild: Shutterstock / Baranq Geschrieben von Dee Marques Dee hat einen sozialwissenschaftlichen Abschluss, den sie mit großem Interesse an Sprachen, Kommunikation und Strategien verknüpft. Sie liebt es, zu trainieren, draußen in der Natur zu sein und warme und sonnige Orte zu entdecken, an denen sie dem Winter entkommen kann.

If you're struggling to live in the present moment, these ten mindfulness quotes from spiritual leaders will inspire you to stay grounded. Recall them when you need to be more mindful. By Calvin Holbrook. Over the past few years, the message about the power of mindfulness has boomed, and for good reason. By practising mindfulness you can be more aware and receptive to how you’re feeling and the reality that surrounds you. Staying mindful is a way of finding pleasure and fulfillment in everyday things and this can make a considerable contribution to your overall happiness. Indeed, by practising mindfulness we can improve our patience levels and also positively change our relationships with loved ones, leading to greater kindness, compassion and understanding. In simple terms, mindfulness is being aware of what is happening to you and around you right now without wishing it were different – even when it seems trivial or negative. Mindfulness also means accepting your life and not being critical or judgmental. In essence, practising mindfulness is simple and straightforward, but it may take time to develop the skills. Having inspiration in the form of mindfulness quotes can help you see the benefits of the practice and give you the power to keep going. The quotes below come from many experts in the field of mindfulness and meditation. Thinking more deeply about the meanings of these quotes will inspire you to practise mindful behavior each and every day. With time, you – and those around you – will really feel the benefits. Mindfulness quotes Recall these ten mindfulness quotes to inspire you and ground you when life is taking you out of the present moment. Focus and bring your mind back to the now. 1. “Wherever you are, be there totally.” Eckhart Tolle German-born Eckhart Tolle is a spiritual teacher and author and one of the most-quoted people when it comes to mindfulness. This quote sums up the essence of mindfulness: being completely in the moment of where you are. Firstly, it works in a mental or emotional setting: whatever your mood or feeling, acknowledge it and accept that that’s how it is at the moment. Don’t force changes (it will pass eventually). • JOIN US! Sign-up to get support from our caring community • This mindfulness quote also applies to your physical location or situation too. For example, you may be unhappy with your living situation at the moment, but simply accepting your situation and not judging it can help. Everything will change. Likewise, in a more positive sense, if you’re enjoying a walk by the seaside or practising some forest bathing, really be there: soak up the sights, sounds and smells of everything around you. Give life your undivided attention. 2. “You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” Jon Kabat-Zinn This mindfulness quote from Jon Kabat-Zinn has to be one of our most-loved – and most repeated! Kabat-Zinn is widely recognized as being the father of mindfulness in the Western world. He's also the creator of the original Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) course. This well-known quote from him sums up how to deal with life’s ups and downs rather nicely. The waves represent life’s many – and unstoppable – changes and challenges. When faced with choppy seas, instead of drowning in them we can get on our surfboard and learn to deal with them by riding the waves. We will probably fall off our surfboard many times, but we can jump back on, and with practice, we can learn how to navigate life's ever-changing waters better. 3. “Be happy in the moment, that's enough. Each moment is all we need, not more.” Mother Theresa This mindfulness quote from nun and missionary Mother Teresa teaches us to enjoy the moment and not to want more than what we have. Sometimes it can be hard to fully embrace the now and stop worrying about the future, but this quote reminds us that we should try to live simply and in the present. It also reminds us that we should practise gratitude for what we have, however little. By always being more grateful in life, we can become less self-centred and materialistic, and overall become happier with our lives. 4. “Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.” Thích Nhất Hạnh One of the most influential figures in the fields of mindfulness, meditation and Buddhism, the wisdom of Thích Nhất Hạnh has provided countless quotes on mindfulness, but this is one of my favourites. This quote is all about remaining centred and focusing on our breath through meditation, despite any changes or upsets in our mind. By bringing your attention to your breath, you can calm a busy or troubled mind and bring about an equilibrium. 5. “The real question is not whether life exists after death. The real question is whether you are alive before death.” Osho Indian mystic Osho was a controversial character, but there’s nothing debatable about this mindfulness quote: we agree 100 per cent! So many of us are rushing through life, doing the things we have to do: the treadmill of work, paying the bills, taking care of the family, etc. But in doing so, we often don’t stop to take in the world around us fully. Being mindful means consciously being aware, stopping to appreciate every moment of life, instead of living it at breakneck speed. “Having some inspiration in the form of mindfulness quotes can help you see the benefits of the practice and give you the power to keep going.” Likewise, this mindfulness quote is also a reminder to ask yourself if you are really living your true, authentic life. Are you doing the things which make you happy in life or are you just a slave to the wage? Are you using all your skills and being the best person that you can be? Using mindfulness can be a great tool to be still and evaluate if you are really alive before death! 6. “Look past your thoughts, so you may drink the pure nectar of This Moment.” Rumi Rumi was a Persian poet born in 1207. Books of his poetry have sold millions of copies in recent years, making him one of the most popular poets in the United States. Pretty good going for someone that lived 800 years ago! This mindfulness quote from Rumi shows why his sayings are so popular. Incredibly, experts estimate that the average mind thinks between 60,000 – 80,000 thoughts a day. Some of those thoughts include minor things like what we are thinking to eat for breakfast, but other, deeper thoughts can fly through our minds all day, such as negative thoughts about the past (rumination) and worries for the future. The problem is, when we are focusing on our thoughts, we are missing what is happening in our lives right now. Here and now. In this very moment. Calming the chatter – the monkey mind – through mindfulness can help you to stop overthinking and live in the present moment, helping you to enjoy life and be happier. 7. “We have only now, only this single eternal moment opening and unfolding before us, day and night.” Jack Kornfield This quote from Jack Kornfield – teacher, writer, and one of the leading proponents of Buddhism in the Western world – encapsulates one of the key elements of mindfulness: living in the present moment. The past is the past; we cannot change it, we can only learn from our mistakes and try to move forward. • JOIN US! Sign up today and make new friends at happiness.com • Likewise, we can try and plan for the future to some degree, but life has the habit of throwing things up in the air to disrupt those plans! Indeed, what we truly only really have is this moment we are living now, and because of that, we should focus on that and make the most of it. 8. “The only way to live is by accepting each minute as an unrepeatable miracle.” Tara Brach This mindfulness quote from respected teacher and author Tara Brach is essentially saying the same thing. We must learn to appreciate that our time on Earth is limited and we should make the most of every minute. This quote also hints at the power of gratitude, suggesting we should be grateful for the gift of life and all the wonder it brings. When problems and thoughts start to cloud your mood and mind, remember this mindfulness quote and try to bring yourself back to the idea of appreciating every moment of our existence. 9. “Paradise is not a place; it's a state of consciousness.” Sri Chinmoy All too often we are searching for our own idea of Paradise: be that in the form of our dream home, an exotic holiday or the perfect relationship. And while, of course, it’s great to have dreams to aspire to, we mustn’t neglect the idea that we can be happy with what we already have. Indeed, it’s our mental attitude that can be a source of peace and contentment. If we achieve a peaceful, conscious mind, free from conflict, it can bring us great joy. Practicing mindfulness can help us achieve this state of being. This quote from Indian spiritual leader Sri Chinmoy reminds us that happiness is a journey, not a destination. 10. “Mindfulness isn’t difficult, we just need to remember to do it.” Sharon Salzberg Best-selling author Sharon Salzberg has written many meditation and mindfulness books and has been teaching meditation since 1974. So, she’s pretty well placed to be able to talk about the difficulty – or ease – of practising mindfulness. Indeed, Salzberg's quote is spot-on. Practising mindfulness in itself is not difficult as it’s simply a way of being that doesn’t require any more of our time. However, training our brains to remember to stay mindful at all times can be more of a challenge, especially if mindful behavior is new to us. However, we can change our behavior gradually, and this mindfulness quote is a reminder of that. ● Which of these mindfulness quotes do you live your life by? Do you have any others you would like to share? Let us know in the comments below. Want to discuss mindfulness with like-minded people? Head over to our forum. happiness.com | The fine art of being: learn, practise, share Are you a happiness.com member? Sign up for free now to: ■ enjoy our happiness magazine ■ share and support in our happiness forum ■ Develop with free online Academy classes Learning | Self care | Meditation Written by Calvin Holbrook Calvin edits the happiness magazine, as well being an artist and travel lover. He also enjoys hiking, nature, swimming, yoga, sweaty dancing, and all things vintage!

From mindful eating to mindful listening: incorporate these 13 practical mindfulness behavior ideas from Calvin Holbrook into your daily routine to live a more present and focused life. Rushing. Multitasking. Not listening to other people properly. Do you recognize any of these habits from your everyday life? If so, you could definitely try to incorporate some more mindful behavior into your daily routine. By practising mindfulness you can be more present, more aware, and more receptive to how you're feeling and the reality that surrounds you. However, changing your behaviour or habits isn't always straightforward. Indeed, behavioral changes can be difficult. When you’ve spent years, sometimes decades, practising a certain behavior, it’s hard to wake up one day and decide to do something differently. • JOIN US! Sign up to learn more about meditation and mindfulness • But if you can incorporate some of these practical mindful behaviors and tools into your daily routine, you could really feel the benefit, boosting happiness levels and helping to keep anxiety and depression at bay. If these are big changes for you, focus on one or two at a time until you feel comfortable with the transition. Mindful behaviors: 13 habits and tools to adapt Use these mindfulness behavioural tools at various points throughout the day. They are listed below roughly into how they might appear in your day-to-day routine. Incorporating these simple mindfulness tips into your day shouldn't require a great deal of extra time of effort: simply a different way of seeing things. 1. Mindful start to the day Take your time to simply be grateful for the day ahead. Showing gratitude is scientifically proven to benefit your mood. After opening your eyes, say hello to your body waking up and notice the different sensations you're feeling: be grateful that you can see, hear, smell and that your bodily parts work. Smile at the world before the rush of the day starts. Just spend a few minutes being and appreciating the gift of life. 2. Mindful breath Before you head out to start your day, open the window. Take a mindful, deep breath and check in with yourself. How are you today? What’s the weather inside of you like? Don't judge how you're feeling or try to reason with it: just sense and accept your mood at this moment in time. Don't try to change anything. 3. Mindful shower Mindful showering is a great morning mindfulness tool to set you up for the day. Really be there in the shower: feel the water on your skin, smell the shower gel aroma and scan your body for how it’s feeling. If your mind is already wandering, bring it back to the present moment by singing a song and smiling to yourself. 4. Mindful mirror When it's time to get ready, instead of looking in the mirror and pointing out your flaws, take a moment to look at yourself the way a parent looks at their kid: with love and kindness. Give yourself a warm loving, accepting and supportive smile before you head out the door to start your day. 5. Mindful walk Try some mindful walking or forest bathing if you have the chance. Stop and smell the flowers, but first, you need to be there to even see them. Hear the birds, feel the many muscles in your body keeping you in balance with every step – marvel at life around you. Connecting with nature is important for our mental health, so if you get a chance to do this with a mindful walk, all the better. 6. Mindful speaking We often feel rushed to reply when in conversations. However, really take the time to consider what you want to say before speaking. Take your time. Consult your body. Are there tensions, do you feel rushed or threatened, or safe and heard? Respond from your heart. Mindful speaking is a behavior particularly useful when it comes to mindfulness at work. 7. Mindful listening Listen. Just listen. Without thinking about your reply. Without planning when to jump in and retort. Make a choice to stay open and attentive and let the words you are hearing from someone else really touch you. Mindful listening can really help improve your communication skills. 8. Mindful moment This mindful behavioral habit helps you to get out of your mind and into your body fast. It's great if something is playing on your brain or you're struggling to focus during the day. Simply stop what you're doing and rub your hands together repeatedly. That's it. Focus on the warmth that's generated. Do it a few times, take a few deep breaths, then head back to your task. 9. Mindful eating At least for the first few bites – and preferably the whole meal – really take your time when eating your meals or snacks. See the colours and texture of your food. Taste it, smell it, and feel the consistency and temperature. Every bite is unique! Do not rush your food. Slow eating is also better for your digestion. 10. Mindful pause So often we try to fill our days with as much as possible, but we need to take time out during the day too. Take in the signals from your body. Pause to listen to your thoughts, emotions and body sensations. Accept them as they are here and now and then focus on your breath before you go back to whatever you were doing. 11. Mindful self-talk Be mindful of how you treat yourself. Be honest with yourself but do not be harsh. Acceptance precedes change. Honestly acknowledge what is, and start with a gentle step. Do not beat yourself up but gently motivate yourself, especially after a drawback. Talk to yourself like you would talk to a dear friend. 12. Mindful encounter Rest in deep gratitude for the power of friendships. On the way to meeting a friend, bring to mind the good times you had and what you appreciate about that person. During your time together, rest in openness and gratitude for your friendship and celebrate what a wonderful thing it is. 13. Mindful breathing Here’s a mindful behavior to relax you, great if you can’t sleep. Breathe in through your nose for four seconds, deep into your abdomen. Hold for four more seconds, then breathe out for four more through your mouth. Pause for four more, then repeat! This mindful breathing isn't just for bedtime, though. Use throughout the day, whenever you're feeling anxious or in need of some calm. ● Mindful behavior: the takeaway Incorporating mindful behavior and habits into your day-to-day life can only bring great benefits to you and those around you. By using these practical tools you will start to be more present and aware, as well as open and receptive to how you're actually feeling and the world around you. Main image: shutterstock/fizkes Which of these mindful behavioral tools helped you most? Do you have any others to add to the list? Join our conversations around mindfulness and meditation in our forum. If you’re interested in learning more deeply about mindfulness, sign up for our free MBSR course. Written by Calvin Holbrook Calvin edits our online magazine, and is a lover of swimming, yoga, dancing to house/techno, and all things vintage! Find out more.