Feeling like I never belong anywhere

[Kr****]

Feel like I always miss whatever everyone else gets. I always make the wrong decision and I never fit in i guess I just feel like a failure in general. What do I do? 

 

Edited March 30, 2020 by Krystale77
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[Candy]

I think you could start by having a bit more faith in yourself :) For many years, I thought the same as you. I was very indecisive (sometimes I still am), and when I did make a decision, it always felt like the wrong one. Looking back now, I see that my decisions led me to where I am today, which is not a bad place to be. Learn to tap into and trust your intuition. Make decisions from your HEART, not your head, and one of the most important lessons I have learnt is that YOU ARE NOT YOUR THOUGHTS. A daily gratitude practice might help with the feeling you have of being a failure. It could be something small, by finding 5 things at the end of the day that you're grateful for, that made you smile, or that you did well or are good at. Within a few days of doing this exercise you might already see a positive change. I wish you all the best. ✨

[Ky****]

Where do you feel like you would fit in?  Maybe that place doesn't exist yet and you need to create it.  What would you like to succeed at?

[Ha****]

On 3/30/2020 at 12:27 AM, Krystale77 said:

Feel like I always miss whatever everyone else gets. I always make the wrong decision and I never fit in i guess I just feel like a failure in general. What do I do? 

 

You probably have an INFJ personality..welcome to my world! I felt the same way till I found out that it’s not just me..hat what I feel of myself is not correct and there are bunch of ppl out there .. as soon as you find ppl with the same personality you will be surprised how awesome you are!!!! ?