Rushing. Multitasking. Not listening to other properly. Do you recognize any of these behaviors from your everyday life? If so, you could definitely try to incorporate some more mindful behavior into your daily routine. By practising mindfulness you can be more present, more aware, and more receptive to how you are feeling and the reality that surrounds you.
However, changing habits isn't always so straightforward. Indeed, behavioral changes can be difficult. When you’ve spent years, sometimes decades, practising a certain behavior, it’s hard to wake up one day and decide to do something differently.
But if you can incorporate some of these practical mindful behaviors into your daily routine, you could really feel the benefit. If these are big changes for you, focus on one or two at a time until you feel comfortable with them.
Use these mindful behavioural tools at various points throughout the day. We've split them up roughly into how they might appear in your routine. And incorporating these tips into your day shouldn't require a great deal of extra time of effort, simply a different way of seeing things. Enjoy.
Take your time to simply be grateful for the day ahead. After opening your eyes, say hello to your body waking up and notice the different sensations you are feeling. Smile at the world before the rush of the day starts. Just spend a few minutes being and appreciating the gift of life.
Before you head out to start your day, open the window. Take a mindful, deep breath and check in with yourself. How are you today? What’s the weather inside of you like? Don't judge how you are feeling or try to reason with it: just sense and accept your mood at this moment in time. Don't try to change anything.
Mindful showering is a great morning mindfulness tip to set you up for the day. Really be there in the shower: feel the water on your skin, smell the shower gel aroma and scan your body for how it’s feeling. If your mind is already wandering, bring it back to the present moment by singing and smile to yourself.
When it's time to get ready, instead of looking in the mirror and pointing out your flaws, take a moment to look at yourself the way a parent looks at their kid: with love and kindness. Give yourself a warm loving, accepting and supportive smile before you head out the door to start your day.
Try some mindful walking or forest bathing if you have the chance. Stop and smell the flowers, but first, you need to be there to even see them. Hear the birds, feel the many muscles in your body keeping you in balance with every step – marvel at life around you. Connecting with nature is important for our mental health, so if you get a chance to do this with a mindful walk, all the better.
We often feel rushed to reply when in conversations. However, really take the time to consider what you want to say before speaking. Take your time. Consult your body. Are there tensions, do you feel rushed or threatened, or safe and heard? Respond from your heart. Mindful speaking is a behavior particularly useful when it comes to mindfulness at work.
Listen. Just listen. Without thinking about your reply. Without planning when to jump in and retort. Make a choice to stay open and attentive and let the words you are hearing from someone else really touch you. Mindful listening can help improve your communication skills.
This mindful behavioral tools helps you to get out of your mind and into your body fast. It's great if something is playing on your mind or you are struggling to focus during the day. Simply stop what you're doing and rub your hands together repeatedly. Focus on the warmth that's generated. Take a few deep breaths then head back to your task.
At least for the first few bites – and preferably the whole meal – really take your time when eating your meals or snacks. See the colours and texture of your food. Taste it, smell it, and feel the consistency and temperature. Every bite is unique!
So often we try to fill our days with as much as possible but we need to take time out too. Take in the signals from your body. Pause to listen to your thoughts, emotions and body sensations. Accept them as they are here and now and then focus on your breath before you go back to whatever you were doing.
Be mindful of how you treat yourself. Be honest with yourself but do not be harsh. Acceptance precedes change. Honestly acknowledge what is, and start with a gentle step. Do not beat yourself up but gently motivate yourself, especially after a drawback. Talk to yourself like you would talk to a dear friend.
Rest in deep gratitude for the power of friendships. On the way to meeting a friend, bring to mind the good times you had and what you appreciate about that person. During your time together, rest in openness and gratitude for your friendship and celebrate what a wonderful thing it is.
Here’s a mindful behavior to relax you, great if you can’t sleep. Breathe in through your nose for four seconds, deep into your abdomen. Hold for four more seconds, then breathe out for four more through your mouth. Pause for four more, then repeat! This mindful breathing isn't just for bedtime, though. Use throughout the day, whenever you are feeling anxious or in need of some calm. ●
Incorporating mindful behavior into your day-to-day life can only bring great benefits to you and those around you. By using these practical tools you will start to be more present and aware, as well as open and receptive to how you are actually feeling and the world around you.
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Which of these mindful behavioral tools helped you most? Do you have any others to add to the list? Join our conversations around mindfulness and meditation in our forum. If you’re interested in learning more deeply about mindfulness, sign up for our free MBSR course.
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