Badly struggling with studies

[Mo****]

I have my entry test on 14 (tue).my dadi passed away on 5th.i cant focus on studies now.thinking of studies makes me feel heartbroke because i know i cant crack the test now.bad state

[ag****]

Hello Moezzahh

 

First please accept my condolences for the loss of your dad. I lost my dad at 15, although we weren`t that close it still hit hard, although i wasn`t sitting any exams.

 

I can`t give you advice on how to deal with the loss of your dad, as everyone deals with the grieving process differently.

 

The only advice i can offer is to tell your teachers of your loss, and see if they can help you in anyway i.e. deferring taking your test until you`re in a better headspace, however long that might be.

 

Academically, i wasn`t gifted, but worked hard and got several degrees including a Masters. Exams were the one thing i dreaded but always passed. One thing i credit this to is using mindmaps, which i have attached a link to.

 

With exams being timed, i found doing a quick mindmap helped he come up with things that i could use. This could help you focus on the key issues.

 

Below are some links which gives you an insight on mindmaps with links to download.

 

These won`t help you grieve, but if you have to take tests they can hopefully help you.

 

Stay safe

 

Andrew

 

[ad****]

Learn to accept everything. What life is giving to you.

When the day is new, Thought process should be new, One day we all will pass away, No matter

 

Adnan