Love and relationships tips

[He****]

We need to understand that there are fundamental issue we all new to know and work on with it in our daily human endeavor, major steps need to be understood if you want a good and stable relationship.

[zy****]

Yeah, I think so too. There are a couple of common problems, misunderstandings and useful tips.

Not only for relationships but for life too.

Here are some of mine:

 

- Care about yourself.
It's important to make yourself feel good. Learn, what you like, think about what kind of person you would like to be.
You can't be the person of your dreams instantly, but you can become that person step by step.

It's about the way you treat others, your hobbies, the stuff you buy/make and much more.

When you can take care of yourself, you are more independent and you can be strong for your partner in case he/she needs it.

 

- Accept that nobody's perfect.
Once you accept, everyone's just human, you can forgive your own imperfections and maybe even treat them with humor.

And you can be yourself without trying to appear better than you really are.

Other people have imperfections too, no matter how perfect they might appear.

When you accept that, you will feel much better about yourself and you can understand a partner's insecurities and be careful about them.

And you can stop looking for Mr. Perfect / Mrs. Perfect and start looking for someone who accpepts your imperfections.

[Li****]

Really great advice for everyone, and like you say, applicable to more in life than relationships 👏

This morning I came across something called 'Simple Formula for Living' that I think could be interesting to repeat here

 

[de****]

Don't believe it if she says there's nothing with the colleague she talks to 24/7... That's a blatant lie. I was cheated on like that for two years, and like a fool I believed everything was fine...

[bo****]

I don't think you should believe that they are just communicating. Especially if you don't know her colleague personally. It's probably cheating that you're being brazenly lied to. I may be saying this because of my principles, but I think it's a lie.

[bo****]

It's just that I once cheated with a colleague. And they also said it was just a colleague, nothing more. Later I decided to follow up and saw them kissing in the park, although at that time, my wife was supposed to be at work... It was interesting... And I became suspicious after reading various articles on the subject here signscheating. I started noticing my wife's strange behavior. When it came to this colleague, she was visibly nervous. So there was no doubt that she was cheating. And then I even caught her cheating. So I don't believe in this "just a colleague."
 

 

Edited August 7, 2022 by bosboja