Hello

[Ha****]

I'm new.

Waiting for support/therapy as my husband died last month.

It was sudden, although he was ill.

We were hopeful of a lung transplant. 

Sadly, he contracted pneumonia and couldn't fight it off.

Our son, who is ten is my priority now but I'm finding night times so difficult. 

I don't know what to expect from here but I must keep reaching out as feel so lonely and lost.

Thank you for reading. 

[st****]

hi I'm so happy that you decided to put that out, try not to overlook it as it might just keep haunting you. try relaxing for 1 day, like maybe go out for dinner with your son or spend a special day out with friends.

 

[Guest User]

We are here to support you. Knowing the things end is one thing, dealing with the shock and grief is quite another. The roller coaster ride of emotions, the loneliness of the night, it's all part of it. There are ways of going forward, but it will be hard because your life has changed, and you will too. Cry when you need too, keep talking, remember your husband for who he was, and more importantly grow your relationship with your son, as he is going through it with you. It will get easier. I wish you well, and you are not alone. Many people around the world go through loss everyday. Keep doing things that make you happy, or find new activities that interest you. Sadly death is part of life, and something everyone has to deal with at some point.

[Gy****]

Keep reaching out xox

[Guest User]

Let your son know that he can still speak with dad anytime he'd like...and listen for the answer in his heart :-)