My Journey of Getting over a Breakup

[No****]

Hello everyone,

Today I'm going to share my personal experience of getting over a Breakup💔

I think many of you might be going through the similar processes in your life and you might find it helpful. 

So, my relationship started and was going very good. The relationship lasted for 2 and half years. I was so sure that he is THE ONE! 

He was emotionally available, very caring, in short, the MAN OF MY DREAM! I was ver certain that I was going to marry him, as he committed at the very start of the relationship. 

But then, he moved to another city. We both knew that this was going to happen, and Long Distance Relationships are difficult. But still, we promised to hold on to each other no matter what! But when he actually moved to another city, I noticed change in this behaviour. But I was trying to understand that, because he was in a new city, meeting new friends and exploring everything. But I used to be at home because of the Pandemic, waiting for his ONE REPLY!

It was exausting for me, but I was still trying to understand. But after a few months, I told him that I feel ignored and he replied with "I don't know what to do". I asked this many times after that, but his reply was the same. And one day, he denied to reply to my 'I love you' message!

That's when I knew that the relationship was about to end. But I still kept convincing myself until he stopped replying me. He used to be online all the time, but didn't reply me, or didn't even see my message. I was broken. 

I tried talking to my friends, but it didn't help. That's when I took help from ONLINE THERAPY. I was assigned a Qualified Therapist with messaging at any time and live sessions. They suggested me that it was the time to Stand up for myself! 

And I finally broke up with him. I was surprised that I didn't cry that day. I was actually feeling liberated. It's a very good feeling when you let go sometimes. But still, all my wounds were not healed. I took more help from ONLINE THERAPY. Used as there features like their Worksheets, Sections, Live Sessions, Messages, Journal, Yoga and Activity Plan. 

My counselor was very Sensitive, caring and able to understand my Problems. She suggested me that the only Love I needed that time, is my OWN LOVE! That's when I started the journey towards Self-Love. And I've never felt this Good before. I'm not exajurating it, but guys, Self-love can change your world completely! 

Self-love taught me to be compassionate about myself as well as to others. I'm very grateful that I had someone to speak to when I thought that No one could understand me! 

This is NOT a promotional post, and my own experience. I hope you all found this helpful. Also, don't forget to Love Yourself guys. And I really recommend you to checkout ONLINE THERAPY if you are going through any Mental Health Issue or Problems and more importantly, it's okay to Ask for Help when you need it, it will only benefit you 💕🤗

[Li****]

Thank you for sharing your story and your personal experiences with love and breakup 🙏 Self love is a powerful thing!

[pb****]

Well done Noopor. You are on the right track. I feel really happy to hear that you could move on successfully and yes I resonate with the fact that Self-Love is the best medicine. I am also practicing the same since last 2 years. Best wishes for an abundant life.

[Su****]

Congratulations for moving on and leading a happy life.🤗

[Ta****]

Well done 👍

[Ar****]

 Self loving doesn't a selfish u can't love others truly untill u love ur self ..be ur own reasons to laugh . happier🙂