True happiness and satisfaction in our work, studies, or hobbies. These are things we all strive for, but only a few seem to be able to obtain such contentment. Did you know that there is a state that means to be fulfilled and engaged in these activities? That state is called flow, named by Hungarian psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi [Mee-high cheek-sent-mee-high]. So, how does 'flow' work and how can we obtain it?
Csikszentmihalyi defines flow as the mental state in which a person performing an activity is fully immersed in a feeling of focus, involvement and enjoyment. This state is characterised by total absorption in what one does, and the resulting loss in one's sense of space and time:
Our sense of time becomes distorted, because the activity becomes rewarding in itself. Check out our full video on flow here:
There are people who have developed their flow in such a way that every obstacle becomes an enjoyable challenge. Csikszentmihalyi calls these people 'autotelic'. These are people that are never bored, rarely anxious, and constantly involved with what is going on. So, how do we become more autotelic ourselves? There are some conditions that have to be met to achieve it:
Flow is a balancing act between anxiety; when the task is too difficult, and boredom; when the task is not difficult enough. That is because when we are in flow, we subconsciously work towards becoming masters. So, to maintain flow, we must seek greater challenges.
Go with the flow: increase your challenge level and avoid boredom
It's an innately positive experience. It produces intense feelings of enjoyment, with long-term benefits to positive effect and happiness. Csikszentmihályi also stated that happiness comes from personal development and growth. Flow states create this development and growth.
The more time we spend in flow-state activities, the more our intrinsic motivation and self-directed learning increase. So, challenge yourself with more complicated tasks, improve your skills, and repeat this process continuously, to help boost your happiness and satisfaction. ●
Arlo is a filmmaker, artist, lecturer, and intermittent practitioner of metta meditation and morning yoga. When not dreaming about impossible projects and making them happen in the most impractical ways possible, he journals, listens to jazz, or cuddles with his better half.
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