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  1. Rosa, I have also been suffering from depression, so I completely understand how debilitating and lonely it can be. One of the things that keeps us in depression is the constant negative dialogue in our heads - it’s not easy to start feeling better when that voice in our heads keeps reminding us that we are failures or unworthy; that constant rumination tends to focus our attention on reliving hurt or regret from the past - or worrying and fearful about the future; it’s a bit like having your mind hijacked by an incessant, negative voice intent on keeping you locked in a depressed state. Recently, I learned about ‘mindfulness’ and it is making a huge difference for me. Here, on the Happiness.com website, there is a free 8 week, online course you can do called MBSR (mindfulness based stress reduction), which teaches you how to quieten that negative self talk. MBSR has been extensively studied by neuroscientists and it has been shown to have a physical impact on our brain’s neural pathways - helping to alleviate both depression and anxiety. When I first started, I was horrified at the thoughts that ran rampant in my mind. It is helping me to be more present in the ‘now’, while changing that dialogue into one of love and self compassion - for me, just becoming aware of the pattern of thinking and being able to now interrupt it, is a victory! At the top of the screen, you will see a tab called ‘Academy’, click on that and choose the option MBSR. I would also suggest getting the book ‘Full Catastrophe Living’ by Jon Cabot Zinn. He actually developed the MBSR program and the book is required reading as a part of the course. best of luck darling!
  2. I have been depressed for the past two and a half years. During much of that time, I spent in self imposed isolation - feeling disconnected from life and friends, tortured with feelings of deep hopelessness and shame. Fortunately, the depression has finally started to lift through a combination of therapy, rTMS (through a clinical study), and a very recent introduction into the benefits of mindfulness and self compassion. This past month, I started reaching out again: first to strangers on the street / the girl bagging my groceries / neighbours, and now, reaching out again to friends who I haven’t seen or spoken to for much of the past 3 years. Don’t let work, your mobile phone, social media, mindless tv or, internet surfing, take the place of friendships and connectedness. Depression is an insidious disease and it can creep into your life without you being fully aware: isolation and loneliness provides fertile ground for depressive thoughts to feed on. One mindful intention at a time, one moment at a time....
  3. I'm trying to make a new routine this week because I very recently quit smoking. Usually I eat, drink coffee and then run out the door for a cigarette. This week I'm going to try to have my coffee and breakfast and then make sure everything is clean so that I can do a mindfulness meditation without any distractions, excessive, then prepare myself for whatever the day has to offer.
  4. I agree. I am in my 20s and do not find happiness from having a bunch of things. Life is more than that, but I loose a connection with other people. I live in a loud and busy community of diverse people. So I am learning ways to practice mindfulness.
  5. Hmm this is a good one I need to make a list and start doing... Like now:} Go to the movies once a week, excersize, work on my mindfulness course everyday, go to church, find new Christian or positive music, support local businesses. Be kind to others.
  6. The power of Now is w great mindfulness book. The art of war is also one of my favorites.
  7. Trying to complete the mindfulness course. Love the positivity
  8. As we have many MBSR students all around the world, I was wondering which time and day would work best for most people to participate in the guided online mindfulness meditations and Q&A sessions. Please check all the days and times that would work for you. The time is CET - Central European time - as that's where I live. So please change your prefered time to CET, and I hope there are some time slots covered. Guiding a meditation online at 4 in the morning is theoretically possible, but I hope you understand that I'd rather not offer that. ?
  9. Fühlen. Riechen. Berühren. Schmecken: Achtsam essen braucht Zeit und Muse - beides vom Aussterben bedrohte Tugenden unserer Zeit. Die Anthroposophin Felicitas 'DUKKAH Handwerk' hat ihre eigene Meinung über Achtsamkeit beim Zubereiten und Genuss des Essens. Hier erzählt sie, wie weit wir davon entfernt sind, achtsam zu essen und gibt uns ein Rezept an die Hand, das uns Magen und Herz im Herbst erwärmt und uns zum Innehalten und Genießen einlädt. Was bedeutet achtsame Ernährung? Wie finden wir zurück zu einem achtsamen Essensritual? Wir suchen Antworten für ein langes und gesundes Leben auf Kontinenten, die so weit weg sind, dass sie nicht annähernd auf unser Leben in diesem Land übertragbar sind. Die Einen sagen dann “mediterrane Ernährung ist der Schlüssel”. Die Anderen sagen “Buddhismus praktizieren und vegan leben”. Wie wir es drehen und wenden: Nicht jede Lebensweise und Ernährung lässt sich auf uns so einfach übertragen. Schauen wir uns also einmal an, wie wir wiederentdecken können, achtsam zu essen und uns mit Achtsamkeit ernähren. Achtsam essen, nicht nur das Loch im Bauch nicht stopfen In der Regel wird wenig bis fast kein Wert auf Zubereitung, in Ruhe miteinander Speisen zelebrieren und in der Familie beisammensein. Die Verpflegung findet größtenteils in Kantinen, Büros, Kaffees, Bistros oder auf der Hand im Gehen statt. Wir stopfen eigentlich doch nur noch das “Loch” im Bauch, um möglichst gleich wieder weiter zu funktionieren. Wir können Erdbeeren im Winter und Mangos rund ums Jahr bekommen, essen Fertigprodukte und Tiere, die viel Leid beinhalten, trinken Energy-Drinks, die aus Chemie bestehen. Wir wollen Alles! Jetzt! Sofort! Weil wir gerade Lust darauf haben. Oder weil wir es uns gönnen können. Was zum achtsamen Essen fehlt, ist die Verbundenheit. Der Weitblick. Die Reflektion über das eigene Verhalten. Und meine Erkenntnis darüber, dass JEDE Konsumtat, eine Politische ist. Ich denke, das IMMER jemand den Preis bezahlt. Wenn ich den nicht bezahlen will, dann wird die Firma XY es günstiger machen. Sie wird jemanden anderen bezahlen lassen bzw. einsparen lassen, was wir nicht bereit sind zu zahlen. Entweder die Landwirte, die dann ihre Kinder arbeiten lassen auf Zuckerrohrplantagen für billige Limo oder es zahlen die Tiere dafür. "Was zum achtsamen Essen fehlt, ist die Verbundenheit. Der Weitblick." Wenn wir nicht hinsehen, was wir tun, entsteht ein Kreislauf mit viel Leid. Das ist auf Dauer nicht nur für die Umwelt ungesund, sondern auch und vor allem für uns selbst. Um uns mit unserem Essen wieder verbunden zu fühlen, dürften wir die Mahlzeiten nicht mehr nebenbei im Multitasking-Autopilot-Modus einnehmen. Wir müssen entschleunigen, um achtsam zu essen, uns jedes Schrittes und aller Beteiligten bei der Entstehung dieses Essens bewusst werden. Das Geheimnis der bis ins Alter glücklichen Menschen Ich wuchs mit dem Satz “Du bist was Du isst”, auf. Er begegnete mir immer wieder. Im Abitur war er sogar Thema im Fach Kunst. Später schrieb ich über die antroposophische Ernährungslehre meine Bachelorthesis. Auch hier begleitete mich dieser Satz. Ich fragte mich, wie viel unsere Ernährung mit der Gesundheit im Alter zu tun hat. Was also machen die Menschen anders, die scheinbar glücklich, gesund bis ins höchste Alter sind? Nun, meine Beobachtung sagt, sie leben “abgeschirmt” von Rest der Welt. Sie konsumieren keine angeblichen Superfoods, die einmal um den Globus geflogen sind. Sie konsumieren eigentlich kaum. Denn sie leben meist sehr minimalistisch und von dem, was es vor Ort gibt. Meist selbst gesammelt oder gepflanzt und unbehabdelt und frei von Pestiziden. Auch ihre Tierhaltung ist in der Regel keine Massentierhaltung. Sondern die eine Kuh, die täglich die Sonne sieht und viel vom kostbaren VitD3 und B12 entwickeln konnte. Eine sorgsame Auswahl der Lebensmittel gehört zum achtsamen Essen © Foto Felicitas Für uns bedeutet das, hinzusehen, ob die Grundbedingungen für ein achtsames Essen gegeben sind: Was führe ich mir zu? Ist Leid mit dem verbunden, was ich konsumiere? Behalte ich das große Ganze im Blick? Verursache ich Leid und bezahle dafür? Je nachdem, welche Antworten dir in den Sinn kommen: Wenn Leid und Elend mit Essen verbunden sind, denke ich, dass wir diese Abwärtsspirale dringend und schnell durchbrechen müssen. Was du also tun kannst, um dich un deinen Körper mit Achtsamkeit bei den Mahlzeiten zu beschenken: 1. Spüre hin und schau was die Erde uns schenkt. Es gibt so viel Superfood in deiner Nähe. Sieh hin. Kostenlos. Es verbindet dich mit der Erde, dem Leben an sich, die Geschenke unserer Mutter Erde zu entdecken. Wolf Dieter Storl sagt das in etwa so: “Die Erde möchte ausgleichen, sie schenkt uns immer genau das, was uns gerade fehlt.” Und es ist genau so. Wir haben nur vergessen, was hier eigentlich alles wächst. Tomaten sind es ursprünglich jedenfalls nicht. Sie kommen aus Regionen, die viel wärmer sind als unsere. Dieses Gemüse beispielsweise wirkt kühlend auf unseren Organismus und wir leben hier in einem viel kühleren Land. Auch Olivenöl und Auberginen sind kühlend wirkend auf uns. Unser Körper braucht also einen höheren Ennergieaufwand um diese Kühlung auszugleichen und das bedeutet zusätzlich Stress für unseren Organsmus. "Die Erde möchte ausgleichen, sie schenkt uns immer genau das, was uns gerade fehlt" Wolf Dieter Storl 2. Schau, was hier wächst und angebaut wurde. Es sind Nussöle, Nüsse, Sonnenblumenkerne und Öl, Leinsamen und Leinöl... Dinkel und Grünkern, Bucheckern, Maronen und Walnüsse. Wir haben wärmende Lebensmittel hier vor Ort. Nicht ohne Grund. Wir haben andere Temperaturen, andere Böden und viel weniger Wildniss. In unseren Wäldern wuchsen Beeren und viele Pilze. Wir haben sie nur vergessen und teilweise aussterben lassen. Nehmen wir als Beispiel den Breitblattwegerich. Er wächst hier vor Ort und ist ein vergessen Schatz. Ein hervorragendes Kraut, dass gerne als Unkraut abgetan wird. Lässt man ihn blühen, kann man im Spätsommer die Samen ernten und trocknen. Diese schmecken leicht nussig und können genau wie Chiasamen verwendet werden. Kostenlos. Sie sind mineralhaltig und genau auf uns abgestimmt, dank Mutter Erde. Die Blätter können zu Pesto oder in der Pfanne mit Knoblauch und Salz angeschwenkt werden, wie Spinat. 3. Spüre in der Zeit zurück Es gibt unzähliges wieder zu entdecken! Mach dich auf die Reise. Schau wie nah das Glück ist. Fühle die Verbundenheit. Sie ist da. Immer. Lass es zu. Nimm dir Zeit um dir Gutes zu noch Besserem zuzubereiten. Und wenn es draußen so richtig kalt und ungemütlich ist, lädt dich diese Kürbissuppe ein, sie und mit Genuss zuzubereit und achtsam zu essen: Als besondere Zugabe mit Brennesselsamen garnieren. Blüten und Kräuter können selber gesammelt werden oder man bekommt sie im Bioladen/Reformhaus. Die Kürbissuppe duftet herrlich und enthält die ganze Sommerkraft, die es an kalten grauen Tagen braucht. Lass es dir schmecken! Eine ruhige Umgebung für ein achtsames Essen Doch bevor du dich zu Tisch setzt, denk daran: Genauso wichtig wie die Zubereitung mit Ruhe und Muse, ist das Zu-Sich-nehmen der Mahlzeit in einer ruhigen Umgebung. Schau, wie du dieses feine Süppchen achtsam essen kannst. Ist eine Kerze angezündet? Sitzen liebe Menschen mit am Tisch? Ist es ruhig und gemütlich? Welche Farben umgeben dich? Leg frisch gesammelte Blätter auf den Tisch, einen Kürbis kannst du dazu legen, daneben eine Kerze anzünden. Egal ob es taghell ist. Reich deinem Gegenüber die Hand und wünsche ihm/ihr eine gesegnete Mahlzeit, sagt kurz Danke zu Mutter Erde, für ihre Gaben. Und lass dich wärmen von ihrer Kraft! ● Titelbild: Felicitas Geschrieben von Felicitas Felicitas ist Puppenmacherin, Handarbeitslehrerin für die Waldorfschule, Köchin und (alleinerziehende) Mama. Auf Instagram inspiriert sie mit ihren Rezepten, Hacks und Tricks für den Alltag und zeigt Konsum-Alternativen als #resteverwertungsfluencer.
  10. Yes, I think finding YOUR prefered time and place is essential and personal. It changes over time too, depending on your daily routines, the time of year. Even if you have found your time and place the experience during the meditation will vary from day to day. Having said that I would recommend doing the meditation as the first thing in the morning for a while. It allows you to be fresh and concentrated without the many things that accumulate during the day that you should do instead of meditating. It also gives you a sense of achievement - you start the day already having done something for yourself. In the evening, most of us are tired, and due to that the meditation becomes more of a relaxation session, then the mental exercise at least the mindfulness meditation is supposed to be. Then again, a relaxing meditation before bed to wrap up the day and calm the mind is a form of self-care too. You are the expert of yourself, so it's up to your judgement what is needed. Be open, keep experimenting. Personally for me the sentence "If I do not have the time to meditate I need it most" sums up what I have to look out for. I see meditating a bit like physical exercise: If it doesn't take effort, it won't have that much of an effect. So I try to choose a bit of a challenge when selecting the time and kind of meditation.
  11. Hi Maggie, So good to hear that you took matters into your own hands. I had similar experiences with doctors and just didn't feel the heart connection or a genuine care. Often there was just a lack in seeing or even questioning the bigger picture, but to me it didnt make sense to just treat symptoms without really knowing what caused them. After leaving a few hospitals with such a feeling I began to rely more and more on my own research and reasoning. We are the closest to our own bodies and deep down we notice every little change and the body knows what is good and bad for it, we just have to learn to listen. Especially since the majority of all diseases are preventable lifestyle diseases,I found using my own body as the laboratory to just experiment with different choices to be very effective. In my case there were also several stress and gut related issues that lead to various other symptoms. By learning more about my gut microbiome and how to treat it really well, most of these symptoms disappeared and my overall mental and physical well-being is steadily improving. Now I am not fighting symptoms with harmful medications anymore, but take them as a clue as to where I am out of alignment with my body, mind and soul. Instead of being in a war with my body, I listen and care - that is such a game changer.. Since you mentioned arthritis, I found this paper on the correlation between osteoathritis and the gut microbiota very insightful and interesting: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6330556/ Thanks for sharing and all the best to you, Julius
  12. A month ago, on the New Moon, I decided to take my Health into My Hands. Had been going to doctors on / off for 15 yrs when arthritis started to show up in my body. first doc said not much to do... So I did my own research & changed my diet a little & took supplements. Things were better for a few years, than stress took its toll on my body & a year ago arthritis went into my back.. All docs could / would offer me was 3 types of pain killers that did not help at all. By chance on the last New Moon I came across the Keto / Fasting plan & Bingo I am off ALL tablets & look forward to getting my Life Back..
  13. Hello Candy, Thanks for your message, lovely to 'meet' you too! I enjoy reading mostly fiction, anything with a good story, and recently have been reading self help books too. I do kundalini yoga, have been going to a small local class for several years, and recently have been increasing my meditation/mindfulness. Music is also important to me, I listen to a lot and sing/dance along whenever I can! looking forward to getting to know more like minded people here :)
  14. Not every news story to hit the headlines in October could be said to be full of happiness – far from it. However, in an uncertain world, there were plenty of feel-good news items that broke into the public domain. Ed Gould shares his Top Ten from the month. There were many stories of hope and happiness in October. Read on to discover some of the more optimistic news items which did not necessarily always get the attention they deserved. 1. New pizza box uses less material Pizza deliveries may bring happiness to many of us (!) but we sometimes feel guilty when we consider the large amount of packaging needed to get them to our door. However, according to CNN, Pizza Hut has developed a new system. The pizza giant has said it plans to launch a round box which uses less material than conventional, square ones. What's more, the pizza franchise company reckons it will be possible to compost this new delivery system. 2. New enzyme helps recycle multiple plastics One of the great challenges for recycling more is the fact that so many plastic items need to be sorted out in order to turn them into the raw materials for new products. Different types of plastic, such as polyethylene, will not always by recyclable if they're disposed of with other plastics. However, a microbiologist has found an enzyme which appears to break down all plastics in a similar way. The news, as reported by the Science Times, means that fewer processes should be needed in future to recycle a variety of plastics, thereby meaning less of it goes to landfill or – even worse – into the world's oceans. 3. Hugging is great for mental health You may have known it all along but hugging really is good for you – and a group of researchers believe they've proved it. In a study of over 400 individuals, people who hugged were shown to feel less negative responses throughout their entire day after they'd received one. People who had been hugged showed lower blood pressure as well as augmented levels of happiness hormone oxytocin. Interestingly, single people and those in partnerships were found to demonstrate the same sorts of responses within the study. Can you hug your way to happiness? 4. Artificial leaf developed, British chemists claim Academics at the University of Cambridge announced in October that they'd hit upon a way of turning carbon into oxygen in the same way that nature does, through leaves. The idea is to turn the artificial leaf into a means of generating carbon-neutral fuel. The 'leaf' is dipped into water and powered by nothing more than sunlight. It's hoped that it can be used to make syngas, a man-made gas that's a combination of carbon monoxide and hydrogen which is used widely in industry. It should make the industrial processes it's used for greener than they ever have been if the idea can be scaled up successfully. 5. Glasgow University to study mindfulness According to The Scotsman, Glasgow Caledonian University will run a nine-week study into mindfulness that aims to find out how it can affect moods. The research programme, known as Heads:Up, will focus on various mindfulness techniques which include meditation, the ability to visualise and physical activities insofar as they impact on mood disorders. RELATED: 7 mindfulness tips for staying engaged Dr Maggie Lawrence said that her programme was based on the teaching of Jon Kabat-Zinn's mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) techniques. In particular, Dr Lawrence wants to examine how MBSR can be used to alleviate moods following certain health disorders, such as stroke, for example. 6. Songbird no longer endangered thanks to conservationists The happiness songbirds bring people is well documented, but more and more species are threatened. However, thanks to a five-decade-long effort by conservationists in the United States, the wonderful Kirtland's warbler has moved off the officially endangered list, according to Science. It's hoped the work done in Michigan to protect it will be rolled out elsewhere for other bird species. Kirtland's warbler Jeol Trick/WikimediaCommons 7. Robots to learn about empathy In an effort to make robots more able to care for geriatrics, a scheme to teach them empathy has been announced, according to Health Europa. The idea breaks new ground because empathy has long been considered to be a human trait that even most animals do not possess. That said, machine-learning techniques have become so advanced in recent years that the idea of an algorithm for empathy is now not considered to be beyond the capabilities of robots. It's hoped the idea will be developed for rollout in elderly care homes. 8. Denmark opens power plant with a difference CopenHill has been billed as the cleanest energy plant in the world. Located on an industrial waterfront, it's designed to make electrical power from nothing more that waste that's been collected from around the country. In fact, the plant's owners claim that it will be capable of turning 400,000 tonnes of rubbish into clean energy each year. And yet, what makes it even more remarkable is that its newly unveiled sloped roof has been turned into a climbing wall, a ski run and a series of hiking trails! 9. Drinking water may bring greater happiness In a report published in the New York Post, people report that they feel happier if they drink water regularly. Research has been conducted with 2,000 people being asked about their well-being and their water consumption. Over two-thirds of people who said they were very happy in their life also claimed to drink more than enough water. However, only around 20 per cent of people very happy people thought they didn't drink enough. Could more water equal more happiness? shuttertsock/Elena Nichizhenova 10. Could a headset cure depression? According to TNW, a headset is being offered to people living with clinical depression in an effort to alleviate their symptoms. Made by a company called Flow Neuroscience, it stimulates the brain with electrical signals meaning it's an alternative to taking traditional remedies, such as drugs. Ten clinics in the UK are trialling the unit. It's hoped similar results to conventional drug treatments will be achieved but with fewer side-effects. Written by Ed Gould Ed Gould is a UK-based journalist and practitioner of Reiki.
  15. If you hadn't already heard, podcasts are all the rage. Calvin Holbrook selects eight great happiness podcasts that will enrich your life, boost well-being and help you learn on-the-go. Are you listening to any happiness podcasts at the moment? Learning and improvement around well-being and happiness has until recently been mainly confined to reading self-help books or viewing online videos. But the power of podcasts now means we don’t need to have to focus on watching or reading, instead we can joyfully and simply listen. This advantage means that happiness podcasts are perfect for traveling, commuting or just when you’re out and about walking. Tuning into a happiness podcast is a great new way to learn more about well-being and can also be a fantastic way to boost your happiness if you’re having an off day. The benefits of this new medium mean that podcasts are rising in popularity fast. But don't just take our word for it. Indeed, podcasts as a medium are popping right now. Around 7.1 million people in the UK now listen to one each week: an increase of 24 per cent over the past year. And in the US, nearly one out of three people listen to at least one podcast every month. Our pick of the best happiness podcasts With such a boom, the overwhelming number of happiness and well-being podcasts out there to choose from could trigger anxiety in some of us! So, we’ve done the hard work and rounded up the best happiness podcasts so you don’t have to search for them. Here are eight podcasts in the areas of positive psychology, happiness and self-help that will lift your day and help you learn to be a happier and more rounded human being. 1. Greater Good: The Science of Happiness If you’re like us at happiness.com and put emphasis on understanding the science behind happiness, then the podcast The Science of Happiness is a great listen. A fortnightly happiness podcast from our collaborators over at UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, as the title suggests, it places importance on science-based insights for a meaningful life. • JOIN US! Sign up to learn more about meditation and mindfulness • In each bite-sized episode (around 20 minutes), the podcast features so-called ‘happiness guinea pigs’ trying out study-backed strategies for a happier, more meaningful life. The guinea pigs test the tips for happiness by making practical changes to their lives and daily routines and then report back on the effects (usually with positive results). Recent popular episodes include ‘making happiness contagious’, ‘facing your fears’ and a fascinating chat with stand-up comedian Margaret Cho who shares some insights into her thoughts around gratitude and time. 2. Gretchin Rubin: Happier with Gretchin Rubin One of the first podcast converts and also one of the most popular, Happier with Gretchin Rubin features the influential and best-selling author of The Happiness Project discussing human life and encouraging her sister – a noted skeptic – to put her well-being tips into practice. The pair’s breezy and humorous nature makes their podcast chats easy to listen to and Happier with Gretchin Rubin covers subjects such as building good habits, improving relationships and developing a happier life. Gretchen draws from her personal wisdom and experiences as well as science to examine how humans can live their lives with greater happiness, creativity and productivity. Rubin has won awards for this cast, proof indeed that it’s one of the best happiness podcasts around today. 3. Nithya Shanti: Spreading Happiness Usually running for between one and two hours (or more), the majority of Nithya Shanti’s Spreading Happiness podcasts are long-players that deserve your full attention. Shanti quit a corporate career in India to pursue his inner calling to be a Buddhist monk. Since then, his experience has led him to share his learnings through so-called “joyful gatherings” across the world. His irregular Spreading Happiness podcast series is a great opportunity to benefit from the best of Shanti’s teachings as it’s a compilation of these global gatherings: elegant teachings on conscious living, and a mix guided meditations, inspiration, wisdom, and story telling. “Tuning into a happiness podcast is a great way to learn more about well-being and can be a fantastic way to boost happiness if you're having an off day.” Recent podcast highlights include 'The Beauty of Agendalessness', 'Power of Presence' and 'Happiness Habits'. Sound quality isn’t always optimal, but you can really feel Shanti’s infectious smile and spiritual strength coming through in his words, making for a wonderful listen. 4. 10% Happier with Dan Harris Another stalwart of the happiness podcast scene is Dan Harris, the presenter who experienced a panic attack live on-air while hosting Good Morning America on TV. It was that experience that led Harris to meditation in a quest to improve his metal health. Meditation worked him so well that he went on to pen a best-selling book 10% Happier, which led to the development of this podcast. RELATED: Panic attacks – 12 tips on what to do when anxiety hits hard Similarly to his book, Harris’ weekly podcast of the same name has a frank and no-BS view towards presenting meditation. Featuring in-depth interviews with mindfulness and meditation major players (the Dalai Lama has even put in appearance), as well as neuroscientists and psychologists, 10% Happier explores meditation techniques and tips on how to train the mind. New episodes are available every Tuesday morning and run up to 60 minutes. 5. Action For Happiness Action for Happiness is a small charitable initiative working to inspire practical action for a happier and more caring society. Presenter Gui Hung fronts the Action For Happiness podcast which features of a variety of guests within the well-being world: happiness authors, scientists and presenters. Borrowing heavily from James Cordon’s Carpool Karaoke sketches, Hung’s Carpool Podcast feature with mindfulness expert Jon Kabat-Zinn recently being featured in the passenger seat to talk about the future of mindfulness. Another reason Action for Happiness makes our best happiness podcasts list is that as well as being able to listen to the audio, you can also watch videos of the experts being interviewed (which works especially well with the Carpool Podcasts!). 6. RuPaul: What’s the Tee? He’s the biggest drag star in the world and a multi Emmy-award winner for his presenting/producing work on hit show RuPaul’s Drag Race, but RuPaul also has a strong interest in spirituality, happiness and self-improvement, that he often discusses with his podcast guests. Usually featuring people from the world of showbiz, What’s the Tee? focuses the chat on their careers, but RuPaul often opens the conversation up to their spiritual and well-being practices, giving a unique insight into the personal lives of these celebrity guests which you can’t find elsewhere easily. RELATED: 8 essential life lessons from RuPaul Charles As well as winning happiness points for its discussion around happiness and making the world a better place, What’s the Tee? is also just LOL funny (and often NSFW). RuPaul’s contagious cackle is reason enough to listen and feel instant happiness. In fact it’s my go-to podcast when I need a pick-me-up, and for that reason alone it makes our list of the best happiness podcasts. 7. Good Life Project The makers of the Good Life Project podcast are on a mission to inspire possibility and connection! Jonathan and Stephanie Fields are the hosts of this podcast which airs twice-weekly. The pair host inspirational and intimate discussions about living life to the fullest and living with meaning with a wide range of guests: from world-shakers such as authors Augusten Borroughs and Seth Godin, musician Liz Phair, professor Brené Brown, as well as everyday guests. RELATED: The 5 best happiness apps to improve well-being Jonathan is a particularly great interviewer with a calm and very listenable voice. Being one of the best happiness podcasts out there, The Good Life Project currently has a back catalogue of over 300 episodes to listen to, usually running for around 45 minutes (which makes them perfect for commutes). 8. Live Happy Now Last but by no means least, this great podcast from the editors of Live Happy magazine features ideas and research on how to develop a happier and more meaningful life. Live Happy Now includes interviews with top positive psychology professionals, well-being leaders and celebrities. The podcasts reflect many of the science-based subjects we discuss in our happiness magazine, with recent podcasts including: ’Embracing slowness’, ‘The importance of self-forgiveness’, ‘Making good habits stick’, ‘Living longer' and 'Happier through kindness'. The tone of this happiness podcast is friendly and light and episodes are digestible at around 30-40 minutes. There are over 200 episodes online to listen to and you can explore the podcasts by categories such as happiness, work, inspiration and science. ● Have you already enjoyed some of these happiness podcasts? We'd love to know which are your favourites and the difference they have made in your life! Share in the comments below! happiness.com | The fine art of being: learn, practice, share Are you a happiness.com member yet? Sign up for free now to: ■ enjoy our happiness magazine with practical life tips ■ share and support others in our happiness forum ■ self-develop with free online classes in our happiness Academy Gratitude | Motivation | Jon Kabat-Zinn | Self-help | Music Written by Calvin Holbrook Calvin edits our online magazine and loves swimming, yoga, dancing to house/techno, and all things vintage! Find out more.
  16. Gosh that sounds like me! Starting out on a journey of self discovery, wondering what the universe has in store for us. Experiencing mindfulness, meditation, reiki and seeing Echartt Tolle has made me keen to learn more. I too overthink, worry to much and an slowing learning that I'm not going mad!
  17. Hi! This exercise for me was also slow to begin with especially lying down. When I did lie down, I could already feel the tension in my lower back. I would have to refocus my attention to the rest of my body following along with the meditation. What I did learn is that doing the body scan, it calmed me down, helped me to focus and center my mind and literally feel my body. I also enjoy the simple awareness exercise because it literally is staying present in the one activity you're doing. I've done it where I drive to work in silence and just focus on my driving and the sounds. I have washed dishes just washing. Also, just taking breathes and knowing that it is life -the breath- helps me to remember to live by breathing. I also agree that sitting meditation is what I've done more of, so that seems to work. Neverthless, I will work on the body scan. There are benefits to it. I love that with Mindfulness there is no judgment, just being and existing with what is now.
  18. Gartenarbeit hat eine Vielzahl von Vorteilen für die mentale Gesundheit, schreibt Dee Marques. Sie reduziert Stress, Isolation und Depression und stärkt außerdem dein Immunsystem. Hier findest du sieben wissenschaftlich fundierte Gründe, warum du dich im Garten beschäftigen solltest. Der Artikel erschien im Original im englischen happiness Magazin Wenn es darum geht, die eigene geistige Gesundheit zu stärken und Glück zu finden, sollte man ein kreatives Hobby aufnehmen, meditieren, sich körperlich betätigen und feste Beziehungen zu anderen aufbauen. Aber wusstest du, dass Gartenarbeit ebenfalls eine wichtige Rolle auf dem Weg zum Glück spielen kann? Das könnte erklären, warum in Großbritannien Gartenarbeit ein nationaler Zeitvertreib zu sein scheint. Laut einer kürzlich durchgeführten Umfrage glauben 80 Prozent der Briten, dass Gartenarbeit sich positiv auf ihre psychische Gesundheit auswirkt und die Vorteile größer sind, als in einem Fitnessstudio trainieren zu gehen. Die Umfrageteilnehmer gaben an, dass ihnen die Gartenarbeit ein stärkeres Erfolgserlebnis gibt als Aufgaben wie Aufräumen oder Hausputz machen. Eine im British Journal of Sports Medicine veröffentlichte Studie ergab außerdem, dass sich nur 10 Minuten Gartenarbeit pro Woche positiv auf die Gesundheit auswirken und das Risiko einer Herzerkrankung verringert wird. Riecht das gut! Gartenarbeit hat Vorteile auf unsere mentale Gesundheit shutterstock/Dean Drobot Wenn wir uns diese Studien ansehen, fällt auf, dass wir keine endlosen Stunden im Garten verbringen müssen, um die Vorteile der Gartenarbeit für unsere geistige Gesundheit zu genießen. Wir müssen sogar überhaupt keinen Garten besitzen. Das liegt daran, dass die Gartenarbeit für jedermann erreichbar ist und du unabhängig von räumlichen oder zeitlichen Einschränkungen loslegen kannst. Es reicht beispielsweise schon aus, sich eine Blumentopf auf den Fenstersims zu stellen und dort Kräuter anzubauen. Aber zuerst werfen wir einen kurzen Blick darauf, woher das Konzept der Gartenarbeit für die psychische Gesundheit stammt. Die heilende Kraft der Gartenarbeit in der Geschichte Die Verbindung zwischen Mensch, Natur und geistigem Wohlbefinden ist in der Geschichte verwurzelt und reicht bis in das alte Ägypten zurück. In der Zeit wurde Königen nahe gelegt, einen Spaziergang in ihren Gärten zu unternehmen, wenn sie geistig nicht zur Ruhe kamen. Schließlich wurde der Gartenbau im 18. und 19. Jahrhundert als klinische Therapie getestet. VERWANDTES THEMA: Gute Laune Lebensmittel! Etwa zur gleichen Zeit glaubte Benjamin Rush, einer der Begründer der modernen Psychologie, dass das Hand anlegen im Garten (und sich diese Hände schmutzig machen), eine heilende Wirkung auf seine Patienten hatte. Einige Jahrzehnte später wurden Gewächshäuser und Gärten zu Rehabilitationseinheiten von Krankenhäusern hinzugefügt, die Veteranen aus dem Ersten Weltkrieg behandelten. "Laut einer kürzlich durchgeführten Umfrage glauben 80 Prozent der Briten, dass Gartenarbeit sich positiv auf ihre psychische Gesundheit auswirkt." Machen wir einen Sprung in die Gegenwart und das Konzept des therapeutischen Gartenbaus wird auf der ganzen Welt praktiziert. Von Italien bis Singapur gibt es zertifizierte gartenbauliche Therapiegärten, die Menschen jeden Alters und jeder Lebenslage die Vorteile der Gartenarbeit für die psychische Gesundheit bieten. Dieses erneute Interesse an der Gartenarbeit ist auch eine Folge der sich wandelnden Bevölkerungsstruktur: In vielen Ländern der westlichen Welt wächst die Zahl älterer Menschen weiter. Viele haben festgestellt, dass Gartenarbeit eine Möglichkeit darstellt, diesem wachsenden Teil der Bevölkerung Unterstützung zu bieten. Das klingt alles sehr ermutigend, aber wie genau kann Gartenarbeit ein Gefühl von Glück und Wohlbefinden erzeugen? Sieben Vorteile des Gärtnerns für die geistige Gesundheit Es ist eindeutig, dass Gartenarbeit zum Erhalt der geistigen Gesundheit mehr als ein vorübergehender Trend ist. Sich mit Pflanzen zu beschäftigen ist wie ein Ventil für den Druck und den Stress des Alltags. Es gibt jedoch noch andere wichtige Vorteile, die du nicht verpassen möchtest. Hier sind sieben Möglichkeiten, wie Garten- und Gartenbautherapie helfen kann, wenn du dich einsam, kraftlos, unmotiviert oder ängstlich fühlst. 1. Entspannung Einer der Hauptvorteile der Gartenarbeit für die psychische Gesundheit ist die Fähigkeit, Stress abzubauen. Diesen entspannenden Effekt sahen die Forscher bei der Untersuchung des Waldbadens, dem japanischen Konzept des Gehens in Waldgebieten, ähnlich der deutschen Kneipp-Therapie. Gartenarbeit ist auch eine willkommene Abwechslung zu unserem zunehmend technisierten Leben. In einer Studie ergaben sich signifikante Stimmungsunterschiede, wenn die Antworten der Teilnehmer bei zwei verschiedenen Aufgaben verglichen wurden: Arbeiten am Computer und Umtopfen von Pflanzen. Während des Umtopfens waren die Stressbelastungen geringer als vor dem Computer. Die Forscher stellten auch fest, dass die Teilnehmer beim Umpflanzen einen niedrigeren Blutdruck hatten, was darauf hindeutet, dass es eine physikalische Grundlage für den stressabbauenden Effekt der Gartenarbeit gibt. Untersuchungen des niederländischen Universitätsklinikums Vrije haben außerdem gezeigt, dass der bloße Blick auf eine grüne Landschaft zu Entspannung führt. Ganz im Gegensatz zu den ständigen Anforderungen an unsere Aufmerksamkeit bei der Betrachtung von Stadtlandschaften. "Kurze Betrachtungszeiten von grünen Bildern können Menschen dabei helfen, sich von Stress zu erholen", sagte van den Berg gegenüber der New York Times. 2. Erdung und Verbundenheitsgefühl Gartenarbeit fördert das Gefühl der Erdung, da sie uns hilft, uns als Menschen wieder mehr verwurzelt zu fühlen. Menschen, die sich mit Gartenarbeit beschäftigen, spüren oft ein tieferes Zugehörigkeitsgefühl und einen tieferen Bezug zur Natur. Und dies ist keine Kleinigkeit: Denk einmal darüber nach, wie weit sich viele Menschen von so grundlegenden Dingen wie der Herkunft ihrer Lebensmittel entfernt haben. Im Gegensatz dazu erdet dich der Garten in Bezug auf den Wert, den du den Lebensmitteln entgegenbringst, die du selbst geerntet hast. Selbst wenn du „nur“ Kräuter anbaust. Dieses Gefühl der Erdung gilt auch für den sozialen Bereich. Gartenarbeit kann dazu beitragen, die Verbindung zu anderen zu stärken, und bietet die Möglichkeit, Menschen mit den gleichen Interessen kennenzulernen. Warum als nicht einmal den nächstgelegenen städtischen Garten oder Kleingarten besuchen? Eine der positiven Effekte von Gartenarbeit ist weniger Isolation shutterstock/Tania Kolinko 3. Im Moment leben Durch Achtsamkeit im gegenwärtigen Moment zu bleiben, hat eine lange Liste von Vorteilen. Es reduziert zum Beispiel ständiges Grübeln und baut Stress ab. Gartenarbeit ist ein Weg, Achtsamkeit zu üben, da du dich auf das konzentrieren musst, was du in diesem Moment tust. Gleichzeitig kannst du dir die Zeit nehmen, die Schönheit um dich herum zu genießen. Tatsächlich zwingen uns alle Aufgaben im Zusammenhang mit dem Gartenbau (wie Graben, Beschneiden oder Jäten) dazu, uns auf die jeweilige Aufgabe zu konzentrieren. Auf diese Weise bleiben wir eher mit den Gedanken in der Gegenwart und legen unsere Sorgen beiseite, wenn auch nur vorübergehend. 4. Einen Sinn finden Ein weiterer Vorteil der Gartenarbeit für die psychische Gesundheit ist, dass du ein Gefühl für den Sinn und Wert einer Sache bekommen kannst. Dies passiert, wenn du dich unmittelbar mit etwas praktischem beschäftigst und bei dem du das Endergebnis deiner Bemühungen sehen kannst. Es gibt dir ein Gefühl der Bestätigung, die Pflanzen, Kräuter und Blumen auszuwählen, die dich glücklich machen und es macht stolz, diese zu pflegen. Tatsächlich zeigen Studien, dass Gartenarbeit einen Anstieg von Wohlfühlhormonen wie Dopamin und Serotonin verursacht. Pflanzen beim wachsen zu helfen gibt uns eine Identität als Pfleger und Kümmerer. VERWANDTES THEMA: Glückshormone – die Neurotransmitter der Glücksgefühle 5. Risiko von Alzheimer und Demenz wird reduziert Gartenarbeit steht im Zusammenhang mit einer besseren Gehirnfunktion und einer verbesserten Konzentration und Gedächtnisleistung. Einige Studien haben herausgefunden, dass sie sogar das Risiko für Alzheimer und Demenz senken kann. Eine Langzeitstudie aus Australien begleitete über 15 Jahre lang fast 3.000 ältere Erwachsene, verfolgte das Auftreten aller Arten von Demenz und bewertete eine Vielzahl von Lebensstilfaktoren. Die Forscher kamen zu dem Schluss, dass die tägliche Gartenarbeit die größte Risikominderung für Demenz darstellt und Demenzfälle um mehr als ein Drittel reduziert - um 36 Prozent. “Menschen, die sich mit Gartenarbeit beschäftigen, spüren oft ein tieferes Zugehörigkeitsgefühl und einen tieferen Bezug zur Natur.” Die Faktoren, die Alzheimer und sein Fortschreiten verursachen, sind kaum bekannt. Da Gartenarbeit jedoch so viele der kritischen Funktionen wie Lernen, Kraft, Ausdauer, Geschicklichkeit und Problemlösung umfasst, könnte es diese Kombination sein, die dabei hilft, die Krankheit bei älteren Erwachsenen abzuwehren. 6. Hilft dir, in Form zu bleiben In der Tat erfordert Gartenarbeit viel körperlichen Einsatz und ist auch eine Form der Physiotherapie. Jäten, Graben, Säcke und Töpfe tragen sind allesamt gute Workouts, mit denen du in Form bleiben kannst. Laut dem SAGA Magazin kann bereits eine halbe Stunde dieser Gartenarbeit dazu beitragen, viele Kalorien zu verbrennen: Graben und Schaufeln: 250 Kalorien Rasen mähen: 195 Kalorien Jäten: 105 Kalorien Harken: 100 Kalorien Darüber hinaus können regelmäßige Workouts zu besserem Schlaf beitragen, und erholsamer Schlaf ist ein weiterer Schlüssel für eine gute Gesundheit. Gartenarbeit gibt Sinn shutterstock/Alexander Raths 7. Stärkt dein Immunsystem Du kannst schon allein dadurch dein Immunsystem stärken, indem du einfach nur dem natürlichen Licht und damit Vitamin D ausgesetzt bist, während du im Freien im Garten arbeitest. Ein starkes Immunsystem hilft wiederum dabei, eine Resistenz gegen chronische Krankheiten aufzubauen. Interessanterweise wird auch vermutet, dass die Erde unter den Fingernägeln die Immunabwehr stärken kann! Das Mycobacterium vaccae, ein sogenanntes "freundliches" Bodenbakterium, kommt häufig im Gartenschmutz vor. Man konnte zeigen, dass dieses die Symptome von Allergien, Asthma und Psoriasis lindert, die alle von einem geschwächten Immunsystem herrühren können. Tatsächlich konnte für das Mycobacterium vaccae auch gezeigt werden, dass es Depressionen lindert. Du musst dir aber nicht notwendigerweise die Hände schmutzig machen: es kann auch durch Einatmen oder über das Gemüse aus dem eigenen Garten aufgenommen werden. Fazit: Gartenarbeit fördert mentale Gesundheit Oben aufgeführt wurden nur einige der vielen Vorteile der Gartenarbeit für die psychische Gesundheit. Wir haben gesehen, dass Gartenarbeit ein natürliches Antidepressivum ist, das einen starken Effekt auf unseren Geist und Körper haben kann. Darüber hinaus ist Gartenarbeit eine sehr leicht zugängliche Aktivität, die nur geringe Investitionen erfordert: Wenn du einen Balkon, ein Fensterbrett oder auch nur Platz zum Aufhängen in deinem Haus hast, kannst du mit der Gartenarbeit beginnen und dein Glück und Wohlbefinden steigern. So einfach ist das! ● Main image: shutterstock/iko Geschrieben von Dee Marques Absolventin der Sozialwissenschaften mit einem starken Interesse an Sprachen, Kommunikation und persönlichen Entwicklungsstrategien. Dee liebt es zu trainieren, draußen in der Natur zu sein und warme und sonnige Orte zu entdecken, an denen sie dem Winter entfliehen kann.
  19. 10/18/19 18.10.19 Dear Mr. Steib, Holbrook, whomever else this may concerns, everyone both on/ff of here:, Hi my name is Jessica A Bruno (waybeyondfedup). Live in both Metro Los Angeles and New York on New Jersey side of it USA. Born with a Neurologically based speech impairment/apraxia-dysarthria. Suffering from depression/anxiety for awhile now. Still I’m not one, but have no to little income. I receive Social Security Benefits for all of it. In which I’m glad for, but still wish I had other means as well, but in I still don’t. At the same time still don’t drive or intend to anytime in the future. Whom needs more of a life then what she has had so far. As opposed to what it has been for the most part of her life and etc. Yet to reach this stage of life and beyond. I’m of a student of life and currently looking for her next opportunity. I’m still trying to found myself after all of these years. I’m also no spring chicken. Beyond all of both content and members I am back here yet again because I finally found what I have been looking for. With even one more to add. Especially, the amount of the time it took me to found. Is just me that is still wondering whatsoever happened to all of these chit chat forum/chats/discussions/talks/forums. Thats includes blogs/social media networking platforms/portals. I mean regarding feminist/s/ism/woman/en/s/debate/s/ing/beyond. I mean for one totally think thats because with all of political correctness/censored/bias/beyond. Especially, with all of conventional/fake/majority/mainstream/beyond leading the way. As opposed to with all of alternative/independent/minority/real/truth/beyond. Thats apart of the problem/s as well. In which again I am not giving any promises as to how long I stay, but hoping it is going to be on the more side of it. Especially, regarding this particular subject/s. In which I usually stay away from. Yet again another on this. Especially, one would think all of this should be over now. At the same time I’m also thinking of this being of the many possible scenarios that all of us should be beyond alert/prepared for/disaster/emergency preparedness/survival/shtf. I mean for all of man made/natural ones as opposed to one over the other. Especially, including all of civilians as well as professional. Everyone/where else should all do it as well.I also highly recommend beyond all of start doing your own learning and researching on it as well. I mean this also applies beyond to everything that I have mentioned above here. To me I found its very important so you can be proactive in it. Also, please take everything with a grain of salt as well. Especially, pseudoscience part of it as well. This also applies to beyond as well. waybeyondfedup with my mom’s cancer battle, both my fraternal twin sister, and my coping skills with it. Know that its been couple/few yrs since (4/26/16) and all of this a combination of my blog entries that I did at the time that I combined into all in one. Back because she has lost it and it didn’t go as planned. I mean not just this, but during the whole process. Have to say now I was pretty much in denial with the whole thing. Even through I knew was suffering, but still thought it was less as severe as this. Back again because I forgot to mentioned that she (right after she found) and she found from there that it showed she had BCRA2. Then after both my twin sister and me were both tested for it. It only I showed that I was suspected to 2, but forgot if it was for ovarian and/or breast. I couldn’t remember and even after through all of the paperwork. Now, I really need to look into all (both conventional/mainstream and traditional/integrative) because I for one still have a love and hated relationship with both medicines. In regards to what happened to her and especially, in the end with her brain tumor. In which she never complained at all because she was always beyond doer and carer. I’m back with even more. Basically, she went back to work when she did (couple wks after). At first, it wasn’t a issue until this past wk. When one of her friend from college went into the hospital because of inflammation in her. Then, everything started to spiraled, spl (spelling) for her. Well, not for her work. In which she mentioned opened to doing the support group at Valley Home Care and she called. But hasn’t called back to found out more about. At the same time shes also showing signs of her moodiness as well. I have no clue if its general or something underline. In which she had a little cold again, last wk. By the way shes the maid of honor for one of her best friends wedding and everything that ideals. Her friend is like her with her mom’s cancer (breast) battle. Thinks thats everything and well at least that I can both remember and think of. Well get back to if I have anything else to add to this. Back again with more whom she was and whom we are. I for one prefer more of an integrative form of it. In which my mom, dad, and sister were brainwashed about it. Especially, more after the original diagnosis. Shes also a retired RN and she was one for 45 yrs. Of course my dad and sister still are. That also includes the rest of our remaining family and our friends as well. At least our family friends. We found it was more aggressive than we original thought it was. Basically, its ovarian cancer and she was 1st diagnosed with it as stage IV back in 2008. She had she been receiving on, off, with a few recurrences in between. Then, last yr it came back in a form of a brain tumor and again she was treated for. In which we all thought that was the last of it because she went onto treatment after that. At the first she was a experimental drug, but then that didn’t work. So, went back her old treatment and then it all started from there. Even through after going to a doctor in the city. We have since decided to stopped all of it and go toward with comfort care. Shes currently a inpatient there, receiving treatment, and it appears to be working for her. At moment we are remaining cautionary optimistic about it. At the same time I would love explore other volunteer options at Valley because I don’t know if I can continue with her old doctor because all of this. Back because she took a turn for the worse sometime overnight or early this morning. My fraternal twin sister called my father and me father regarding this morning. Basically, this whole day and beyond has been a whirlwind for all of us. Belated Waybeyondfedup worried about how my fraternal twin sister is coping with our mother’s death and especially over this past week for sure Its pretty much a mo now since her death and everything happened to leading up to it. sI mean we should be getting over the initial shock of it and getting back to normal. Well, of course our new normal. Have to say that I’m really not worried about my father about this because hes not going to change. Still I’m more worried about my fraternal twin sister more because shes more like our mom and that includes our dad as well. Whom takes care of everyone/thing before herself. In which I do get, but then don’t. I mean shes had her issues with certain things and etc. In which I’m not going into on here because whats the point of getting into on her. Belated Back yet again with another hospitalization story with my both depression and anxiety But this time this was totally different hospital and experience. Basically, it all started with my mother’s passing from her cancer battle a mo ago with a little meltdown, but still not a full blown one until this one. In which went to the local hospital emergency room and also went for this past one. Then, lived with it off and on until a couple of wks ago with my period. Trying some new meds, vitamins, supplements (homeopathic, multivitamins, and supplements), but in the end none of them worked because they aren’t a exact science. It was also in combination of nervous about my sister’s live to work lifestyle vs work to live lifestyle. In which it drove me to first er and then hospital. All and all was pretty good experience expect from here to there. Think thats it for now. Thank you, again, in advance. Yours truly,
  20. Hello! Thank you for joining and welcome to our little happiness community! Happiness.com is just in its infant stage, but I can already say that I find it good for very many things! There's a whole community of curious, kind and openhearted people willing to share their life experiences and lessons with others. People willing to help and serve, learn and experience, and welcome and support anyone in need of it. Unlike Facebook, we are a little conscious community for those interested in more "Real" topics related to life, love, loss, mindfulness, peace, dis-ease, etc. It can be whatever you’d like it to be :) All the best on your journey ?✨
  21. I'm reading a book about fertility that swears by it. I recently went to a Kundalini yoga class in Amsterdam and I really enjoyed it. It's more chanting mantras than the asanas, but the whole experience is quite powerful. I left the class feeling a great deal better, and a little blissed out. The book I'm reading suggests Kundalini yoga for pregnant women or those wanting to get pregnant, but I think it's accessible to anyone who wants to clean/heal their energy and just bring some more peace and mindfulness to one's daily life.
  22. Mindfulness can help us maintain our well-being in the face of difficult situations. By Mitch Abblett on behalf of Greater Good Science Center. “You’re making Daddy late for work!” I said, standing over my then-three-year-old daughter with the winter coat I was insisting she wear. “No! I’m not wearing it!” Celia screamed. My anger surged. Thoughts of “I’m sick of this” and “She’s doing this on purpose” swept through my mind. I was scheduled to conduct a 9 a.m. parent training therapy session, and her resistance would make me late. Ironically, it was on 'mindful parenting'. Mindlessly, I pressed my agenda. Understandably, she pushed back. “NO!!” she yelled, dropping rag-doll-style to the kitchen floor. I lost it. Bending down nose to nose with her, I yelled: “Celia! Put on your f***ing coat!” She froze. I jammed the coat onto her, led her to the car, buckled her in, and drove to daycare. My daughter, usually chatty, was notably silent. Me? My cheeks burned red with the shame and self-doubt of a man completely convinced he was a 'horrible father.' And then, from the serene calm of the backseat, my daughter spoke up. “But daddy?” she asked. “What, Celia?” I expected the usual request for a snack, or for me to flip on her favourite Mickey Mouse songs. “But, daddy, I don’t want to wear my f***ing coat.” If you’re a parent, you may recognize yourself in this story. But let it soak in that I’m not only a dad, but also a child and family psychologist and a mindfulness author. Let yourself feel a bit better for all of your own angry, self-doubting, anxious, avoidant, or compulsive reactions to difficult circumstances. It happens to all of us. Getting angry or irritable in day-to-day life is normal shutterstock/George Rudy Even if you’re not a parent, you still have your own moments of surging thoughts and emotions leading to highly reactive and 'unskillful' behavior. Whether you’ve ruminated over a fight with a loved one or avoided work by taking a not-so-sick day, you’ve fallen prey to a negative habit of mind that is keeping you stuck and miserable. “Let yourself feel a bit better for all of your own angry, self-doubting, anxious, avoidant, or compulsive reactions to difficult circumstances. It happens to all of us.” In my new book, The Five Hurdles to Happiness, I describe five problematic and reactive habits of mind (or hurdles) that were originally identified in ancient contemplative and meditative traditions, and I explain how they affect our happiness, peace, compassion, clarity of mind, and effective action. Though these habits evolved for important reasons — to keep us safe from danger, for example — many of us find them less than useful in our modern world, where they can wreak havoc on our well-being. The five hurdles to happiness So, what are these five hurdles to happiness? Here's a brief description of each, with examples of how they can become obstacles in our lives. 1. Desire Craving for pleasurable experiences of people, places, or things. Desire for pleasure is completely normal. It’s compulsive craving that leads to excessive costs to our effectiveness and, in extremes, to the impairments and perils of addiction. For example, 8 per cent of U.S. adults have experienced an alcohol use disorder at some point in their lifetime. 2. Aversion Anger, frustration, and hostility when we perceive life circumstances 'shouldn’t' be as they are. We all get irritable and frustrated with daily life from time to time — it’s natural to want to 'push away' from aversive situations (and people). The problem is how toxic anger can be to our relationships, and even our physical health. 3. Mental fatigue The clouded, dull, sluggish state of mind that saps our concentration and ability to see others, the world, and ourselves clearly. We all 'zone out' on occasion, but when our minds regularly tune out the world around us because it’s unsatisfactory in some way, then we pay an unnecessary cost. According to the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey, 26.5 per cent of individuals in the U.S. over the age of 16 report feeling unrested during the day, with 25 per cent reporting difficulty concentrating. 4. Restlessness Anticipating the threat of negative outcomes in the future, and a lack of abiding in the present. Our powerful human brain evolved to help us quickly and efficiently anticipate threats in our environment. When anxiety becomes extreme, though, it can seriously block us in everyday life. In a 12-month period, approximately 25 per cent of U.S. adults would meet diagnostic criteria for an anxiety disorder, and in 2004 anxiety disorders cost the European Union more than €41 billion. 5. Doubt Uncertainty about our situation and ourselves that blocks our ability to see the way forward with flexibility and our willingness to engage with challenges and demands in our daily lives. People with chronically high levels of self-doubt are much less confident and, for example, report lower self-esteem when presented with a memory task. Practice SNAPPing awake when hurdles arise While we can’t change experiences or objects that trigger us, we can shift how we relate to them — meaning, the thoughts, images, and uncomfortable bodily sensations that accompany them. How? Through learning about and practicing mindfulness. Mindfulness is a state of nonjudgmental paying of attention to one’s experience of the present moment and is key to detangling ourselves from habitual ways of responding. Cultivating mindfulness, we can learn to lean into habitual patterns when they show up and ultimately sidestep them, allowing for more consistent experiences of happiness and well-being. RELATED: 7 mindfulness tips for staying engaged As researcher Judson Brewer has demonstrated, mindfulness practices offer the possibility of severing habitual cycles at their source in the brain. For example, studies suggest that mindfulness can help us stop smoking, manage anxiety, and change problematic eating by cutting the link between conditioned cues in our environment and our habitual responses to those cues. We simply need to learn to leap over these hurdles to happiness with consistent practice. Here’s a sample of how you might practice doing so, by 'SNAPPing' awake: 1. Stop what you’re doing for just a moment when you can tell you’re getting triggered by something in your environment. 2. Notice with curiosity what is happening in your body and your mind. Witness and watch the energetic play of bodily sensations and the continuous flow of thoughts and mental images as each is born, lives, and passes on its own. 3. Allow these experiences to be just as they are, without judgment or attempts to control them. This doesn’t mean you’re signing up for discomfort or pain; you’re choosing to recognize what’s happening in the moment without trying to change it. Tackle uncomfortable bodily feelings with deep belly breathing shutterstock/fizkes 4. Penetrate uncomfortable sensations in the body with full, deep belly breaths, and continue to breathe in this way until you notice your experience shifting and your negative patterns of thought and feeling beginning to dissolve and become more flexible. 5. Prompt yourself to move or act with intention in the direction that feels most important and reflects compassionate care for others. Pause to remember to be kind to yourself and to appreciate your efforts in working with your habitual patterns. When bringing mindfulness to our habits, we build the skill of deeply listening to what these patterns are telling us about how we play defense against pain every day, and how we might learn to be with our body and mind with spacious presence and clear awareness. That way, we can look at our lives with less distortion and leap forward with more purpose and direction. I certainly have tried to practice bringing mindfulness to my own habit loops, and Celia, now nine years old, is the prime beneficiary. It’s easier for me to slow down before I slide into my old, unhealthy, reactive 'Abblett anger.' And I’ve got the absence of F-bombs in recent years to prove it! ● Main image: shutterstock/Olga Danylenko This article originally appeared on Greater Good, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley. happiness.com is honoured to republish it with the kind permission of the Greater Good Science Center. greatergood.berkeley.edu
  23. Hi, I'm Jade! I've been re-discovering myself for a few years now and mindfulness keeps coming up...The time has come for me to jump right in..Well, I've allowed myseld to just flow into this mindfulness appreciation...I'm loving learning me and being more aware of others...I hope to become more balanced, grounded, a more effective communicator, and just overall...LOVE. #LetsGrow #EnergyOnQueen #SelfLove #Grateful #Love #Priceless
  24. Yesterday I read in a book that in Traditional Chinese Medicine, worry is the same as stress. We all know what stress does to the body... I must admit I am a bit of a "worrier", but reading this article just now, I decided that instead of being a "worrier", I prefer to be a "warrior". ?
  25. My experience in sitting meditation at first it was hard to do it alone but by practicing over and over again, you'll get used to it. I can focus more if l am doing it in my bedroom. I started last year and it really help me concentrate with my studies and it is good stress reliever too. When I meditate, I choose the time when my roommate and neighbor is at work. When they make noise, it will take time for me to focus. Time and place is very important for me to do my meditation.
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